By the numbers: F/W review and some discoveries

First, the synopsis: For the first time ever, I counted actual wears of each item during the past season. I learned that:

  • my wardrobe is about the right size for me, but...
  • it still needs some tweaking in specific capsules.

I also arrived at some tentative conclusions about how I want to evolve my style next fall/ winter. If you hate long blocks of text you can stop right there.  ;)

For those who may be interested in my musings, the longer version: 

The context: Fall-winter lasts for about 6 to 7 months where I live. Snow lingers on the ground here now, and it is too cold to do well outside without a hat or mitts. (Next week is supposed to be better). Most of the winter, quite honestly, I look like photo #1 when I am outdoors. And I am often outdoors. 

The numbers: I had between 85 and 88 clothing items in my winter closet, including coats, toppers, knits, shirts/ blouses, dresses/ skirts, pants, etc. Not including gear, underwear, footwear, scarves, or bags. For footwear, I had 12 options, but realistically, outdoors, only 3 or 4 were viable for much of the season. My beloved booties become "indoor footwear" in winter. 

Most worn items: 

  • puffer coat (55 wears)
  • oversized cashmere pullover (photo 2) (46)
  • navy cardigan (photo 3) (36). 

Note that the latter two were most often worn as what most people would call "lounge wear." Just around the house, not outdoors. As part of what I am beginning to call my "cozy capsule." 

In footwear, my snow boots got 45 wears. And -- the joke's on me. Remember the Aquatalia Sweeties that I said I would probably never wear? Well? I wore them 43 times!! And I came to understand the appeal of a mid-calf boot. Thanks to those who urged me to persevere with that. 

I own a lot of jeans compared to most people. 14 pair that I use in F/W. But I wear denim almost every day in winter (which may or may not be a good thing...more on that later). My most worn jeans were my CoH Patina Racers (30 wears). But my Rag and Bone Dres got 20 wears as did my GAP original fit selvedge jeans (inherited from my daughter's donate pile!) And altogether I wore jeans more than 200 times this fall/winter. 

The good news: I wore almost everything at least once. The exceptions were a few special occasion items (dressy and mostly on the conservative side) and some of my dressier trousers. I had enough variety to satisfy me for the most part. I liked many of my outfits, especially those that I wore outside the house. (The rest of the photos show a few that I enjoyed.) And I was comfortable in my at home wear (a huge need). 

The bad news: In reviewing my winter's outfits, I'm still less happy with my winter style than with my spring/ summer style. 

The question is, WHY? 

Last year, I thought it might have to do with a lack of variety in my winter silhouettes as compared with my summer silhouettes. I tried to address that this year with the purchase of a couple of casual skirts/ dresses, some cardigans, and some cozier shirts (so I wouldn't have to rely on a constant diet of knits for my tops). These were all helpful changes and I enjoyed wearing my new cardigans and shirts for my at home capsule. 

BUT....(you knew that was coming, right?) I still felt less than 100% fab. And there were a few occasions when I didn't feel like I had the "right" stuff to wear -- mostly outings with writing friends, when I wanted outfits with a bit more edge or...something...(not sure "edge" is the right word....). Anyway, something a bit more interesting than I could create from my current closet. 

I think I have boiled this down to two issues: 

1. My lifestyle is more casual than I might wish. We have talked about this as a group many times. I know some people say, "There is no reason you can't "dress up" at home -- but, well, frankly -- there IS. It's just not practical, and I am a practical person. When I stray from that into my fantasy life (I am looking at you, super expensive dressy La Canadienne boots that I only managed to wear twice this winter, photo 9 ) I tend to rue it. Even when I try to "dress dressy down" I just don't wear my inherently dressy items as often. 

2. My winter style is perhaps not feminine enough for me. I feel too boyish and preppy in this endless parade of jeans and, jeans and, jeans and. 

So why the heck do I wear jeans so often, then? Partly because it is practical, of course. But also, when I am able to dress it up (with a great turtleneck or shirt, a fantastic jacket, and a fabulous pair of shoes/ boots) it is the perfect combination of dressy/casual/edgy/androgynous for my style persona. 

Outfits #6 and #9 illustrate this. 

My ideal outfit in any decade consists of just that: great fitting and current cut of jeans, great booties, great jacket, with a simple top underneath. 

The problem comes when I'm just wearing jeans and a sweater or jeans and a shirt. I feel a little bit childish, frumpy, unfinished, unfab. But indoors in winter, I am not going to be wearing my jackets, booties, or any of the elements that can give a canvas of jeans/ shirt the kind of "oomph" that I crave. And outdoors, I'm going to be wearing clumpy snow boots, a gear-like puffer coat, mittens, and a hair-squishing hat!! 

What's a girl to do? 

I do have a few thoughts on this but would love to hear yours as well. 

My challenges for next year:

1.  My lifestyle may be changing a little bit again, as I may be returning to school. (I will still be writing creatively and as a freelancer but going out into the world a bit more often.) On the plus side, this would allow me to wear more of my beloved toppers. (I love a structured topper when I am out in the world; prefer a soft pullover or cardigan at home). At the same time, it would still mean a very casual way of dressing. 

2. I absolutely want to add a bit of "edge" (for want of a better term) to my out of the home outfits. To me, this can't be in the form of hard-edge black stuff or in the form of avant-garde drape. Neither of these work for me. I have to find another way. 

Thanks for reading if you have read this far, and thanks especially to Caro in Oz and Mo, who consistently talked about the value of counting, and to Ingunn, and Suzie, who did a very thorough count and review of their wardrobes last year, which helped me quite a lot. 

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45 Comments

  • Tanya replied 9 years ago

    Wow Suz, this is quite a post!  I impressed with all the thought and energy you put in this.  And I was nodding my head at a lot that you wrote, since a lot of it applies to me, to a somewhat lesser degree.

    I have some thoughts:
    1. For going to school, I think you will find yourself at home with Smart Casual.  You know, awesome jeans and jackets, great shoes.  It is not to dressy but still dressy enough.  I don't know if there will lot of college age kids at your school, but even so, you have earned the right to look much better then them. And I think you already have a perfect wardrobe for it.
    2.  For at home, I strongly commend getting some truly amazing sweaters.  Something that is a statement in whatever the way you define your edge and beyond a simple cashmere sweater in great color.  I have been resorting to a couple of my sweaters that have that something special a lot this winter. 
    Another suggestion, and I think I might have mentioned this to you in the past, are some knitted motos.  Like the Helmut Lang attached. They are edgier than cardigans and equally comfy.  Again, I have found those incredibly useful.  I think I have been either in a statement sweater or knitted moto 80 % of the past winter.

  • Angie replied 9 years ago

    *APPLAUSE*

    I thoroughly enjoyed reading through your genuine, accurate and intelligent thoughts - and I am not into reading huge blocks of text at the best of times. So well done on many fronts, Suz. You are beautiful, thoughtful and brilliant. 

    You got the heart of the issues. Climate and lifestyle prevent you from dressing the way you really want to, and you are too practical to do otherwise. Quite right. I fully support that. 

    You are after something DIFFERENT but no hard edge, black stuff, drape or arty farty styles. My suggestion: Look for the more creative and less modern classic versions in your tried and tested loves: Shirts, t-necks, puffers, snow boots, hats, scarves and jeans. 

    Case in point. Here are some of my own examples which help illustrate my point:

    I LOVE white shirts. But didn't want another modern classic button down - nor did I want a masculine tux shirt. I am moving on from "Tomboy" (although those pieces are a slam dunk on my body type and a very easy way of dressing for me). I am amping up the pretty, tailored and feminine aspects of my style (hence the hair change too). So I bought this. And LOVE it. Exhibit #1. 

    I love dots. So I bought this blouse from Madewell. Soft and romantic. #2. 

    I also love pullovers and bought the Trouve underlay sweater because it's graphic and different (not just a simple cashmere crew neck I would have bought at J.Crew). #3. 

    I am quite sick of my BF jeans (accept for the white), so I'm back into skinnies and loving it. Need them for the types of tops I bought. #4 and #5. 

    (I also bought three tops in HK with a similar feeling. You saw the light grey from a Japanese designer in the sea foam post). 

    My sea foam moto and high waisted floral cropped pants - total wild cards - and already wardrobe workhorses. Sleek, soft, and fashionable. I am SOOOO enjoying this next phase of my style journey. It feels really right. 

    Anyway, I hope we can help you as you move through this next phase of your style journey, Suz. Never a dull moment is there. 

  • E replied 9 years ago

    I'm so impressed with how much you've learned! My style is essentially the polar opposite of edgy, so I don't have any real suggestions to offer. I love Tanya's idea of a knit moto though! I'm offering you lots of sympathy that your lifestyle and ideal dressing style clash; that's very frustrating. And you're not kidding about needing practical footwear in winters here! I rotated between the same 3 pairs of boots for months! Hoping to add another pair of knee high deep winter ones to my closet, as now I know they'll more than earn their keep!

  • rabbit replied 9 years ago

    A very interesting read!  I hope to do my own numbers analysis soon since I've now been tracking just over a year.   I think both Tanya and Angie have great ideas for you (of course) about not buying "classic" basics, but one's with a twist.  Something comfortable but creative and maybe a little unusual (without resorting to hard edge or avant garde drape).   Those might be harder to find in some ways, but really fun to pursue/try on.   

    On the outings with writer/artist friends,  I've been thinking about that, because it's really for me sort of an edgy casual occasion.   Wearing more dressy clothes can often not really feel right, because no one else will be wearing them, but at the same time others' clothes are often imbued with personality -- so there is a desire to do the same -- partly because you are with a group of people who appreciate the creative, unusual, and personal. 

    On the indoor comfort clothes that feel fab, that's something I've not really figured out, although I do like wearing comfortable knit dresses, with leggings in winter, and without in summer.   I have to say maxis are pretty great indoor dresses, especially for sitting cross-legged on the couch or something.   I tend to change when I go out of the house anyway (I rarely wear the same outfit all day).

    I look forward to continuing to follow your journey!

  • rachylou replied 9 years ago

    Well, I feel like I've got my head wrapped around your challenge now, lol. I see now that your at-home capsule is a heavier hitter than I comprehended before. It really needs to exist and be considered in its own right. I think in my own head I've been trying to create one for you that looks too much like your out-and-about professional one, like some kind of appendage of that one.

    I really like Angie's pick of the floral scuba trousers. Warm, comfy, and weightier but without floppiness.

    I am thinking now about how one has their essential style, but the look of it will be done very differently depending on context. Like I added suits to my wardrobe last winter for work. I really really like them, much better than my old ones. They have punky touches, without being anything near. Leather trim, sleeves sewn scrunchy, texture. No navy gabardine. My lounge wear - the early morning dog walk stuff - we're talking full-on red/black plaid, droopy grey sweater, beanie, sweater booties. I think you get the idea of a common thread, but wildly different in the how of it. If only to do this with summer... total roadblock for me there.

    Do you ever wear jeggings?

  • carter replied 9 years ago

    Suz, fantastic read! I totally get the feeling frumpy and unfab at home, even when I have dressed for the day. When I'm at home I'm generally not wearing shoes, carrying a purse, wearing a topper, or wearing any non-basic jewelry. Yet, when I go out in the world, it's these items that I rely on to pull the outfit out of the doldrums.

    For me, there's no way I'm dumping my casual jeans, so my top has to do all the work of turning jeans and a top into an outfit. I've really concentrated on adding some comfy, yet more interesting, tops to my closet the last few months. I'm liking it. I have also tried to up the style statement of my belts, so they can be that "third piece" that helps pull the outfit together, even if I'm barefoot.

    As I recall your S/S outfits from last year, you seemed to have several tops that were special enough to carry the outfit. Now that you've done this post mortem on F/W, I think it will be very interesting to see how that percolates through S/S.

  • unfrumped replied 9 years ago

    Such a fun read! You have done a great job of thinking in practical ways.
    Angie beat me to it and said it better, but it sounded to me that you may need more "dramatic" or different versions of your go-to items. The snow boots need some kind of color or other different detail. You've already thought about your "puffer capsule" in that you could make good use of more than just a basic neutral puffer.
    Indoors, I think you've been choosing great "cozy" items that are not frumpy or sloppy, but, are there versions that are just more "wow"? Not sure if those would be more expensive, or more delicate, which would not fit your practical nature,  or if you just need to look at other vendors to find more unusual pieces.

    I know I tend to go to my usual sources that are comfortable and whose shipping and returns are easy,  and to some extent it results in a more conservative or bland wardrobe.   I usually just don't have the time and energy to cruise tons of internet sites and hate ordering hassles and shipping costs and being unable to try things on IRL. So I am making an effort to intermittently cruise even the limited B&M stores here (the department store has small collections from various makers, and a few local boutiques get unusual items) just so I may see "what's out there".

  • replied 9 years ago

    I can't help but think it's not about finding yet another idea or two of some new thing to wear to keep the boredom at bay - because that conversation could go on forever....

    Counting wears is interesting - I'm sure it's a valuable way to see what is actually getting worn ,and I bet you are glad that you took the time to set yourself up with a system for this.  I wonder too if there really is a solution or bigger issue  than just relentlessly searching for something one can't define.  Winter is bloody boring in Canada - it wears down everyone. The last couple of years have been crazy too in that winter never seems to end.  Most of us  look better in fewer heavier layers, in nicer colours, less visual weight of the clothing, and in more skin showing.  Anyways, maybe i'm projecting my own thoughts here. I have nothing to offer in terms of thinking up specific pieces or categories for you to explore, because we've been here before.  You are also far more polished and consistent in your look  than I am with your at home work wear and we don't share a similar working life/style  so I'm not qualified to comment on that.  

    Anyways - I always enjoy reading your analyses -and at this point I've lost track of what the question really is :)  Or if there was one .  Happy Easter Weekend ! 

  • Alassë replied 9 years ago

    I really enjoyed reading all your thoughts, Suz, and I'm glad for you that your wardrobe is basically at the right size and just needs a few tweaks. I'm sure Angie's advice is spot on, and I look forward to hearing your own ideas on the matter as well.

  • replied 9 years ago

    I love your insights!!!!!!!  Such a fascinating read.  

    I need to come back later and really read it carefully because I learn from posts like these.  I'm so glad you counted.  I hope it was fun for you.  

  • Gaylene replied 9 years ago

    I can really relate to this post, Suz, because I've come to more or less the same conclusions this past year. Staring at what was left after my drastic downsizing made me realize I had definite style parameters and requirements. I could flirt with other looks, but the majority of my wardrobe had to stay within some fairly specific limits if it was to be practical and right for me.

    Seeing my closet in this light made it easier to concentrate on looking for pieces that fit clearly defined, personal requirements this past year instead of being pulled my longing for another aesthetic or being influenced by another person's "total workhorse" or a blogger's eye-catching outfit. Which brings me to something I've been wondering. Does constant searching, pinning, experimenting, and imitating help--or just complicate--our desire for a functional, but stylish, wardrobe? What kinds of style goals make sense? If I long for "edge" but can't define it in the context of my own style aesthetic, does it make sense spending time and money trying to pursue it? And, the big one, at least for me, at what point do my style goals become more about thinking about my next purchase than about a distinctive, personal aesthetic?

    My purchases this last year--Fluevog boots that I can wear for hours, a waterproof trench, a pair of grey jeans, a moto-style cardigan, a new scarf, and two sweaters--totally satisfied me, but weren't radically different than the items they replaced. Nothing really trendy, but lots of happiness factor when I wore them together or with what was already in my closet. In my case, muting my style aspirations actually seemed to improve my happiness factor.

  • merwoman replied 9 years ago

    Fascinating read Suz - and thank you for sharing your insights with us. So much to learn from what you have written.

    What has helped me through the winter is a very impressive array of coats! I find if I vary the outerwear,I am not so bored with what lies underneath. I really tried to limit my puffer to extreme cold days ( like a lot of February) and wear my woolen coats layered to keep warm and variety of scarves and handbags to keep me amused.

     And I hear you on the mid calf boot - I have a pair of Rockport black moto boots that I have worn virtually non stop since December. Looking for an additional pair  in a different  colour (greyish) for next winter. (perish the thought of another winter....)

  • Firecracker (Sharan) replied 9 years ago

    Suz, what an interesting analysis. You've done a great amount of research and are so insightful about your wardrobe and style. I have a half-joking "solution" to your at-home style: the sweatdress! Like you, I have a very hard time "just dressing up anyway" even if I don't have somewhere to go. I tend to wear my least stylish outfits when I'm not leaving the house. And then I don't feel so fab in them. The new sweatdresses I've made are comfy enough that I can sit around at home in them and feel comfy, with a pair of leggings underneath, and also feel stylish, even without my chic footwear (I wear Haflinger slippers in the house). So you may need to find just the right tunic/dress to add to your at-home wardrobe--one that is seriously, no-kidding comfortable (and washable--that's key for me, anyway) yet also with a fashionable feel. I've tried others before and they felt too much like a dress.
    I also think you've gotten a lot of wisdom here that will be more useful. Tanya's comments hit home for me--I keep buying plain cashmere pullovers, because they are cozy and easy to pop on for a day off, and yet, they aren't a very inspiring style for me! And yet, too, my very cool AllSaints sweater feels too fussy to wear around the house. I need stylish, yet easy.

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Thanks so much, all, for your thoughts and suggestions -- very helpful indeed. And SO want those Topshop pants and the Helmut Lang moto...  :)

    Firecracker, Rabbit, and Rachylou hit on two important issues and sort of recognized where I am going with this next year. 

    Up until now, I've tried to make my "at home" wear sort of segue into street wear, if you know what I mean. My at home wear (jeans, a knit top) would become the base layer for when I would go out. 

    That's all very well and good, but it has become boring to me. And in some ways I actually think I would do better to consider my "at home" wear a completely separate (or almost completely separate) capsule in the winter. Make it a cozy loungewear capsule (maybe even a stylish gear capsule, since I am often going to the gym during the day anyway). It would be comfortable, functional, and it wouldn't bore me any more than what I already have -- especially if, as Sharan suggests, I found a way to make it "sporty luxe" with something like a sweatdress. (Lining up to purchase mine, Sharan...) 

    To Gaylene's point, proceeding in this direction might also allow me to reduce my wardrobe numbers even further. I'm not really feeling a need to cut back (I have room for everything, I wear it all) but at the same time, I'm in favour of as lean a closet as I can practicably manage -- and also one that has space for the "statement" items I might need in other capsules. 

    Meanwhile, Rabbit has put her finger exactly on the issue I face in my social life. "Wearing more dressy clothes can often not really feel right, because no one else will be wearing them, but at the same time others' clothes are often imbued with personality -- so there is a desire to do the same -- partly because you are with a group of people who appreciate the creative, unusual, and personal."  

    Precisely. 

    I feel like I can do that reasonably well in the summer somehow. Angie's right -- a lot comes down to climate. Because honestly, if I can wear a fab pair of shoes with some great jeans or one of my tube skirts, I can pretty much always find a top that works for me in spring/ summer, and/ or a topper if needed. In winter, I've got the puffer, the boring pullover, the snow boots, etc. etc. So, yeah...I need some more interesting fall/winter essentials -- items with a bit more personality, somehow -- something more than a pretty colour, as many of you have mentioned. 

    OTOH, 
    Gaylene, I think you also make a good point about reducing expectations. Sometimes I feel this way. When I am really happy wearing my favourite basic combo, I will feel as if nothing else is required. Just a few updates on that. In some ways, I think "edge" is beside the point -- it's not edge so much as....hmmm....a defined and clarified self-presentation. I think that is why I keep going to the word "strict." I don't actually want "strict" style, per se. I just want a very clear set of parameters for my outside the house looks, and an easy, comfortable, and practical way that still feels authentic when I am indoors. 

    "Just." She says.  ;)

  • Gigi replied 9 years ago

    I've just skimmed your post, but it looks very interesting to this Minnesota gal, who also struggles with nasty winters. I wore sandals last week when it was only 50 degrees, but I just couldn't stand it anymore! My chiropractor had capris on that same day, and we had a good laugh.

    I think Angie is on to something about finding really distinctive basics. If you have a really distinctive top or bottom, you don't have to add so much "bling" in the form of a topper or shoes. For instance, I have a pair of skinny jeans that have a lace-up detail on the calf. All I need to complete an outfit with those is a tee shirt and a nice belt. Of course, interesting shoes elevate the outfit even more, but it's still very enjoyable for me to wear these pants without anything "extra."

    I have found that even an interesting belt can add enough pizzazz for me if the rest of my outfit is very sleek and minimal and fits very well, creating a streamlined silhouette so that the belt becomes more of a center of attention than it would be otherwise.

    As far as silhouettes go, I know that the cold makes it very difficult to wear skirts. I did find this winter that by wearing two pairs of thick tights under a skirt, I was just as toasty warm as when wearing pants with silk liners beneath. Would wearing two layers of tights be an option for you so that you could wear more skirts? Or maybe try some patterned tights (you could wear them on top of a plain pair for warmth) to make things more exciting?

    I know that the pictures of items I have posted are probably not in your style. Do you think you could hone in on what exactly would help you add edge? Pattern? Texture? Unexpected color combinations? Unexpected item pairings?

    One last idea: Have you ever tried to make a mood board according to Into Mind? I love her instructions because they force you to focus only on one element at a time as you peruse outfits. I have found her approach to be invaluable to help me pinpoint what exactly it is that I am missing to take my outfits to the next level. She recommends doing the mood board with printed pics, but I just use the Internet and drag the computerized images into iPhoto on my Mac.
    http://into-mind.com/2014/02/28/mood-boards-2-0/

  • AviaMariah replied 9 years ago

    I love how the dangly earrings look on you in #8. How would it make you feel if you amped up your earrings to add some more interest?

  • Runcarla replied 9 years ago

    Do you think a 'statement something' might be an element that can Suz-ify an outfit for at home and for getting together with your peeps?

    You have a trademark Suz haircut, but I note since your eye surgery you have eschewed the specs - thus loosing an accessory. You do have a formula on how you put your outfits together (I see 'swaddling'?) and you do lean heavily towards a palette of neutrals/blue. (I miss the touches of fushia - signiture colour?)

    I would not suggest starting anything new, but maybe looking into things you have not purged due to sentimental reasons (jewellery, scarves) as a possible source for additional personal expression.

    As others have noted, more distinctive tops (not toppers) might provide the 'edge' you crave. I know it is hard to commit to something that is so distinctive it might appear to have limited outfit application. However, you may discover that you love the piece so much you wear it all the time without become bored, and it turns out to be the proverbial wardrobe workhorse.

    Now, if you are going back to school you will need a backpack and a caribiner with a bunch of mini stuffies hanging off it that signal who you are!

  • Sharon replied 9 years ago

    This was really interesting Suz, especially as we head into winter here, because although our winters are far milder I faced exactly the same issue with my winter clothes last year. I also came to the same conclusion - not enough femininity! My solution has been to implement one of your suggestions- the knit skirt as the basis for my casual wardrobe. I really appreciate the suggestion as I think this will be a game-changer for me.

    I have also taken a good hard look at my tops and tried to think about details that would bring in a more feminine aesthetic. I am somewhat restricted in the shapes that look good on me, but within that I am considering texture, colour, pattern and detail. Things I have enjoyed this season are layered lace or burn-out/cut-out styles, abstract floral patterns and details like contrasting cuffs or ruffles. I have experimented with pastels, but haven't really loved them. For me, I think the aesthetic "heavy lifting" needs to be done by the fabric and cut of the piece, but you may find pattern and colour works better for your style.

    The other thing that occurs to me is that avant-garde does not necessarily have to be arty or drapey. Maybe some shirts with a bit of tailored volume and some interesting details may give you the same vibe but with a clean, sleek overall look?

  • Caro in Oz replied 9 years ago

    You've gained such valuable information Suz :) & I think what Angie is saying makes total sense (of course). I subscribe to Angie's suggestion wholeheartedly.

    "My suggestion: Look for the more creative and less modern classic versions in your tried and tested loves: Shirts, t-necks, puffers, snow boots, hats, scarves and jeans."

     I think one of my first posts was bemoaning the fact that when I got home & took off my great footwear & jackets I felt really boring in my clothes. My solution was to buy harem pants :) This may not be your solution :)  but I think the concept is valid. I knew I was/am a pants rather than a skirt or dress person so I started there. My harems can be worn with a hoodie & sneakers for going for a walk. I wear them with shoes & a leather jacket for errands & can wear them with a dressier coat or jacket & heels for evening. The beauty of them lies not only in their versatility but in their ability to make me feel great when I'm not wearing a jacket & booties :) IMO once you find your version of my harems your real wardrobe will feel much more like your ideal one. It also means that you can still wear & enjoy your basics when the mood takes you.

    Suz, it seems to me you are much closer to getting to grips with the missing piece of your wardrobe puzzle. In the scientific world scrutiny does improve performance & I believe it works for our wardrobes too :) 

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Sharon, I am exactly like you in that the "aesthetic heavy lifting needs to be done by fabric and cut." But I fall into the trap of hoping it can be done by pattern or colour. And that never works. It gives me a quick sugar hit, but does not satisfy. I LOVE your wardrobe and will definitely be looking for clue from you. But I think I need to come to Australia so I can frequent your designers. Or find some Canadians who make me happy in the same way. 

    I am with you on not feeling pastels all that much. I like a pale blue or a blush, but that's about it. I definitely like contrast and/or piping/framing in items. It is sharp and clean. 

    Carla, what a great idea to think about which items I hold onto for sentimental reasons. Except...except...I don't! I'm very unsentimental about my clothes, wear almost no jewellery, and I really only like my scarves because they keep my neck warm and add a bit of interest to an otherwise neutral outfit. 

    I guess this tells us something right there, no? It has to be modern and current. Not trendy, necessarily. But my happiness factor is related to currency. 

    P.S. I am so getting the kitty caribiner in #2. That is Max!! :)

    Gigi, I really like your suggestion to try to hone in on what exactly makes me feel as if something has that extra "zing" that I love. I do think "currency" is high on my list, and also sharp lines, esp. asymmetrical lines. So that is something to consider carefully, going forward. Like you, I am a lover of belts as a third piece at home. My leopard and snakeskin belts are almost worn out after two years, which tells you quite a lot. :)

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Caro, thank you! I am 100% with you on that. I feel as if I am getting closer, too. 

    I think harems might work for me in a different climate. The ones I have found thus far do not work for our winters -- tights underneath make them staticky. I do love my crepe track pants but not so much for winter. Again, it comes down to my blasted climate. Why don't I just move, eh?  :) 

  • amiable replied 9 years ago

    What a terrific read!  I think I'm about ready to start tracking wears.  It would probably be very enlightening....

  • Gaylene replied 9 years ago

    *laughing*

    "I just want a very clear set of parameters for my outside the house looks, and an easy, comfortable, and practical way that still feels authentic when I am indoors."

    Don't we all! If you find that elusive elixir, be sure to bottle it because you'll have a lot of takers! :)

    On a more serious note, though, I was intrigued by this statement by Valentine Fillol-Cordier in Approprio's contribution to Link Love last week. The article was the difference between Valentine's approach to style and Suzy Bubble's approach:

    "Everything I wear is so simple – jeans, white shirts, rollneck jumpers – and all the “style”, if you want to call it that, comes from me being very precise about the length of the trousers, the cut of a jacket, and then changing it to suit my mood with accessories. You know, carrying a bag that makes me stand a different way; tying a vintage scarf round a jacket to alter its shape – I really believe in the power of a scarf. Style doesn’t come from buying new things, it comes from thinking about your clothes"

    That quote made me wonder if I've been looking in the wrong direction. Might I get more bang for my buck by concentrating on getting the small details and supporting actors right--the details of HOW I wear my clothes--instead of always focusing on WHAT I am wearing by searching for "signature" pieces or adding new styles?

    One of the things that fascinates me about Angie's outfits is how carefully she orchestrates every little detail of her outfits, even down to how she ties her shoe laces. In her eyes, a white shoe that fits and is comfortable is just the start of a process that ends only when she has figured out how to HOW to wear that shoe in a way that reflects her personal aesthetic--AND applies that same process to everything else in her outfit. Mind-boggling, but ever so effective in creating an Angie-specific look.

    Maybe it's time for you to figure out the small details that need to be present for an outfit to be a Suz look--the fit of a pant, the length of a top, the height of a boot--all those tiny details that make a jeans and sweater outfit a Suz's outfit. Because you already do have a very distinctive personal style--just ask any number of admirers on this site.

  • AM replied 9 years ago

    Great analysis. I'm in a similar position of wanting to find interest in my home wear. And I love the concept of a "cozy capsule." I've been exploring the hemlines of my tops -- high-low, shark bite, asymmetric, ruching, etc. Also exploring light weight layering...exposed camisole straps under boat necks, leggings/jeggins with tank/tunics, etc. And I bought the harems! 

    I do think it is helpful to consider this as a separate capsule that ranges from loungewear to modern cozy. I have also found that it means some pretty significantly contemplation for each piece, each combination of pieces to feel like it is deliberate and styled. I'd like to think I'm working towards some uniforms (fingers crossed) with some recent experimentation.

  • Karie replied 9 years ago

    Fascinating reading! I love what Angie said, she it the nail right on the head! I have three distinct and different groups of clothing: work, home, and going out. Work is dressy, home is sweats/gym wear or loungewear, and going out is jeans with some of the tops from the work group of clothing. As long as the seasons keep moving I don't get too bored with my wardrobe (since we're stalled over winter, I am a bit bored right now).

    I love the comment about the heavy lifting being done by fabric and cut. Take the types of items that you wear most often and take them up to the next level. You've already done some of this. Look at the jeans you love and have worn most often - the CoH, Rag and Bone, and Gap Selvedge - all better quality and/or cut. 

    I think your wardrobe is amazing, and you have learned so much, and I have learned so much from you!

  • jackiec replied 9 years ago

    Wow, Suz, what a fascinating read. The way you are able to articulate all this amazes me. You have such a handle on your style and direction. I feel like I really share a lot of your style goals, so thank you for articulating this so well. I also feel like I need that edge. When I look back on many of my WIWs from this winter I roll my eyes. When I see your sampling of photos here, what strikes me is how every single outfit has that edge. Mostly it's in the footwear, to my eye. Yet often it's in the cut of the top. I think if you are out, back to school, you'll very easily have that look with your footwear and topper. I feel my frumpiest at home, in my comfy clothes, sans proper footwear (crocs don't count!). So no advice here, just thanks for the fantastic analysis (for poaching) and for personal learning. I, too, crave the tops with the je ne sais quoi to add that edge. That would explain the lack of "third pieces" ie blazers in my wardrobe. But I digress. Well done on your analysis. You are inspirational :)

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Gaylene, I, too, was fascinated by that article and especially by the accompanying photos. It really was true that each woman looked lost in the other's clothing. I know I veer closer to the Valentine side but there's a bit of Susie in me, too. I wonder where the two meet? Comrags, maybe. I'm serious. I just wish they would not heavily rely on black. 

    But yes -- I do think that's it. I need to focus on the details now. The how. But...uh...how??? I shall be paying even more attention to Angie, I suspect...

    I've just taken a set of photos for our "decades challenge" week. I am not sure I'll be able to wear the outfits this week partly because I'm going to be travelling and partly because of weather constraints. But I wanted to try the challenge. And one thing I discovered was that in dressing for 3 different decades, I relied on essentially the same uniform -- but with different cuts/ silhouettes/ details. Interesting. 

    Jackie, Karie, AM, all great thoughts. I really like this idea to focus on hemlines, AM. That is part of it, for sure. 

    Amy, tracking sounded very tedious to me initially, but it wasn't too bad. I didn't worry about CPW or anything like that (though I could figure it out pretty easily). But that wasn't important to me, really. I can see that some items totally earn their keep (and then some) and others maybe don't in terms of frequency of wear, but are still necessary in my life, because after all, even if you don't wear a party dress more than twice a year, you need it when you need it. But getting an overview like this helped me feel really justified, say, in putting my money into a new puffer next year. I have had this one now for four seasons and worn it constantly. Time to add to the capsule. 

  • Jaime replied 9 years ago

    Such a pleasure to read your writing Suz! Well frankly I am not just rather bleary brained as usual first thing in the morning, but rather dazed and confused from the 30 hour bender called Pesach in this house. Anyway, three things stuck out from the whole thing. 1. Your current style is really strong and a great, stylish base. 2. Angie's eyelet empire anthropologie top really surprised me, and I feel studying it might be the key to some lesson here. 3. What Gaylene said about Approprio's link and the article itself. Looking forward!

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Ha, Jaime, I am amazed you are here at all. Yes, Pesach is quite the event. But it was quiet here with only 3. We should have stayed with you for that. :) 

  • frannieb replied 9 years ago

    Wow, great read and responses. I learned so much.
    I can empathize with your dilemma. I dress for work and love my work capsules and yet the weekend  continues to befuddle me beyond belief. I just finished a week off of work and was a complete disaster at getting dressed because I was only at home and running errands. Today I put on a pretty wackadoo outfit because I was tired of wearing jeans for 5 days straight and was bored because my tops are boring because they are a base layer for a topper. 
    I look forward to watching your evolution - to echo an above thought - your color palette is very neutral have you thought about adding in some brights. A neutral outfit with a pop of bright color from a scarf, belt or shoes can be edgy. Just a thought.

  • Runcarla replied 9 years ago

    Suz, the decades challenge has been an eye opener! While researching how to style my new flowy trousers (for my decade - 1920's) I came across the picture below. What makes it 1940's is the button down shirt sleeves rolled so high up the arm. I immediately had to give this look a try, and will be wearing it for real later when my 1920's experiment is completed.

    As Gaylene pointed out, it is the little details - when even the roll of a sleeve can have an impact!

  • Beth Ann replied 9 years ago

    I'm so frustrated to be so behind on the forum when great threads like this come up!  It's late -- and Easter morning is coming quickly, but find so much to nod along with in your post.  How do we create casual and at-home personas that are, well, personal, creative and practical?  My investment in better looking loungewear made the biggest difference this year.  And being both picky and varied in my silhouettes shows some promise -- although I struggle with finding the right items and proportions for a modern style that compliments my body.

    As you look forward, make sure you take a moment to look at the road you've traveled -- you have learned so much and look so consistently fab!

  • Deborah replied 9 years ago

    Suz this is a great post. Thank you for sharing.  I have only skimmed other comments.  I really appreciate your comment that dressing up at home is not practical.  I agree and it's something I have been thinking about as I will now be home more than I am at now at work with my new job.  I 'think' I will be wearing a lot of my relaxed jersey pieces on my non work days.  They look good but are very comfortable and I can work at home in them easily.

    I did read Angie's suggestions and I like her ideas for you.

    While I can't really make any suggestions, I think that the fact that you are so clearly able to assess where you are at, what you want and what you need is a real step to getting to where you want to be.

  • Summer replied 9 years ago

    Suz, I came across your post late last night, but was far too tired too leave a coherent reply. So, I've popped back to re-read, reconsider and take notes!

    Our life-styles are very different - UK, country life-style plus large garden and pets, for me - but our wardrobe needs seem remarkably similar. For my everyday life I need practical, comfortable clothes. Jeans and sweaters are my staples, not glamourous, but perfectly suited to my needs. I, too, found that It wasn't feasible to try to dress this uniform up for out-of-the house occasions: I need completely separate capsules for both. I differ from you, though, in that I'm quite happy with my pared-down home clothes, just as long as I can dress up a little when I go out.

    I think you have had some great suggestions here, especially those for statement sweaters and sweater dresses. I love Tanya's suggestion for knitted motos, and Angie has given some great advice - of course she has!

    I've no doubt that you will have nailed your perfect home capsule by next winter, and will look forward to seeing where these musings take you.

  • Jaime replied 9 years ago

    We always have room for three more Suz :-)!

  • dakotacheryl replied 9 years ago

    Wow...I am overwhelmed by the wonderful post Suz...and you look wonderful in all of your photos.

    I live in the Black Hills of South Dakota and our winter weather pops up from early October through April, with warm days added in to the mix to make dressing even more complicated...as well as many many days when I leave for work with temps in the 30's and by afternoon the temps are in the 50's or 60's. This past week our temps swung from 10F in the morning one day to 80F one day in the afternoon!!!

    I have 3 sets of clothes...work...going out...at home. My poor husband sees me looking "nice" when I'm walking out the door, or just walking in the door because I change into "at home" clothes immediately. 2 big shedding dogs and 3 cats mean that I am constantly covered in fur...so usually wear leggings and comfy tops at home that I change daily to get a fur free look for a few minutes (have a cat in my lap as I type this).

    I find that I like nice fabrics and textures...and accessories, and that adding in these finishing touches makes me happy.

    I look forward to seeing how your style evolves as you add "school" clothes into your mix.

  • Staysfit replied 9 years ago

    Suz, i don't have time to read everyone's responses this morning so forgive me if I'm repeating. I admire your diligence in tracking your wears! I have intended to do this, but have yet to be successful. It seems too time consuming for my busy life. Your analysis is wonderful and I can clearly understand your dilemma.

    I may not be the best person to offer suggestions as I wear jeans almost everyday year round and have around 40 pairs. I have never become tired of wearing them for some reason. I also haven't had the concern that they are too casual for my lifestyle, and I am a physician! Maybe I am delusional!? :-) I love them, but I do break up my wears with skirts and dresses, even in the winter. I know our winters are similar and like you we still have snow on the ground (and in the air). One thought for you may be sweater dresses. I have a collection of soft merino wool sweater dresses that are cozy, warm and comfortable. They are definitely casual, not formal, and they could work for at home wear with some leggings or warm tights. They also shift to dressier if I add a nice scarf or earrings. They are great because I can alter the accessories to make them look however I want, with a belt, with my shoes or boots, a pair of colorful tights, etc.

    Your struggle is so interesting. It's hard to balance the feminine and androgynous edginess in your style. I know my style is not particularly edgy. I veer more towards the feminine and I think that's why my style adjectives include the word Soft. I love how you work things out Suz. I'm sure you will come up with some great ideas for F/W. The good news is there are a few months to think about it -------if and when it actually stops snowing!

  • Elizabeth P replied 9 years ago

    I also read this yesterday wehn I had no time/energy to digest, so am popping back now to comment.  Not sure I can even do such a great piece of anazasis justice, but I do have soem random thoughts in my head that might help, so here they are... in no particular order.

    1.  Well, the first and most important thought is that you do need to rest assured that you have an amazing style.  Just look at the photos you chose... no matter what they are illustrating, you look fantastic.

    2.  I hear ya on the winter thing, you know you have my total understanding and empathy.

    3.  I'm blown away that you wore those two sweaters 30+ times.  I think that no matter how much I loved something, wearing it that much in one season would make me sick of it.  So I think you should figure out what you liked about those pieces so much, and duplicate or triplicate, but in a different way.... so you get the love and function, but a different look.

    4.  It's hard for me to relate to the working at home thing, because I don't.  And I'm still one to change into lounge wear the second I walk through the door.  But I do think that wearing the same things to work in all day, as well as go out in during the day or the evening, would get tiring.  I think the idea of a lounge capsule, that FEELS good might be worth persuing.  Then when you get changed to do errands, or whatever, your casual clothes feel more new and fresh to you, not same old same old.  I love the chance to put on jeans and a nice casual sweater, becasue it's NOT every day that I get to. 

    5.  I know that for me, it's hard to have interesting basics.  I seem to feel that if I have a basic piecs, they can't be too interesting because they have to go with everything, and in order to have the edgy piece or interesting piece, I end up with too much... the basic AS WELL AS the interesting.  I need to get over this.  Do you?

    OK, that's it for now.. if I don't post I'm afraid I'll lose this!

  • dakotacheryl replied 9 years ago

    I forgot to type...

    I bought a felted wool skirt from Eileen Fisher, that, when worn with fleece lined tights (I preferred footless as they stayed up better), wool socks and my boots, were just as warm as pants and looked a lot more stylish.

  • Ann in New England replied 9 years ago

    Suz, much of what you say applies to me, as I work from home several days a week. My favorite work from home outfit this winter was a charcoal Eileen Fisher cotton/merino dress and fleece leggings. I can change out the look pretty easily with scarves of various colors. But the footwear thing just threw it all off. So I get what you are saying.

    We need to bring the fashion footwear industry into this thread so that we can create slipper capsules. I wear my faux uggs so much that I can totally justify splurging on real uggs next year -- but I don't really care for how they look. Beyond that, they are exactly what I need. So what's the alternative?

  • CocoLion replied 9 years ago

    Hi Suz!  Like Beth Ann I have felt behind on the forum.  There's a decades challenge going on?  Must check this out.

    As I read your post, I found myself nodding in agreement with all of it.  Like you, I seek comfort in my at home capsule, yet want to stand out somewhat when the occasion calls for it.  As I look forward, my needs are for fewer smart casual outfits, more stay at home casual, and a few more dressy events like the Opera.  Therefore, I am stopping myself from purchasing too many more smart casual outfits, and focusing on adding a few more dresses as well as more at-home wear.

    For at home wear, my approach has been to focus on quality.  I have a large number of Vince sweaters that are perfectly cozy yet have some style.  I have good jeans, and good tops to go with the jeans and sweaters.  This has been my big lesson.  If these clothes get worn the most, then I'm not going to be thrifty.  I also spend more at the dry cleaners.  Instead of hand-washing, I bring things to the cleaners, because the clothes will look good longer.  It's still a relatively small price to pay to feel better about how I look at home.

  • replied 9 years ago

    Suz - I haven't read through everything, but I have seen lined version of jogger type pants and I wondered if they would work for your climate (assuming you can get Athleta in Canada):

    http://athleta.gap.com/browse/.....#style=224

    Carolyn on Un-fancy.com has mentioned wool joggers as well but I'm not sure where she got them from. 

  • Vicki replied 9 years ago

    You've done your homework, Suz, and not only will you be excellent at school, you'll continue to look stylish and modern in any setting.

    I'm impressed with your number crunching and in seeing your photos, and hearing your lament on all the jeans wearings, what I see is variety in the wearing of them. You have such nice pieces, in topper form and sweaters, that you make your signature look unique.

    Still, I see your desire for a way to add an interesting edge to this formula, and I love Angie's examples to find one-off Suz classics to keep you happy.

    I can't wait to hear more about the school project coming up in your life.

  • RoseandJoan replied 9 years ago

    A think you have identified a comfortable stylish loungewear capsule is in order. I know you have rebuilt your wardrobe from scratch Suz and inevitably this leads to items being purchased which have to work within several capsules but as times moves on I think it is natural to become more specific with our wardrobes.

    After Ruby the puppy entered our lives last summer my loungewear, casual wear items suddenly became a priority. I have purchased quite a few items from Hush which fits my requirements. the only trouble is I now wish to wear these clothes all. of. the. time!

    https://www.hush-uk.com/looks_1

    This cardigan has been my ultimate workhorse

  • harmonica replied 9 years ago

    Love your reasoning, Suz! Thanks! Especially interesting to follow you winter style since we live in similar climates. It is hard to keep up the happiness and style quotient when the temps are going down and the wind is howling. Or it is just dark, dark, dark and icy & slushy all over. You look beautiful no matter, but its important to feel it from inside, too. :-)

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