ISO Casual Statements

Thanks again, everyone who contributed to my Essentially Speaking thread. It was a really helpful discussion for me (and I hope others!) and led me to more than a few lightbulb moments. 

In the past year or two I've built a functional closet. I've focused largely on quality essentials, with quite a few "regulars" (i.e. essential-like items distinguished by colour or some special design detail).

And I love my essentials! But looking ahead to a long, long winter, and looking at what I have in the closet now -- I am worried that the same boredom that afflicted me last year may afflict me again. 

This summer, I did a lot of buying -- more than I expected. I was thrilled with my purchases, and -- for the first time ever -- happier with my summer wardrobe than my winter one. Why? Well, I think I figured it out. 

  • I had more variety of silhouette (skirts, pants, shorts of different widths/ fabrication).
  • I had more "statement" pieces -- tops or bottoms that were a little unusual. Maybe even a little bit tough to style -- but worth it. 
  • I had more white and more colour. Dark neutrals worn day after day depress me. There is no getting around it. Sophisticated? Yes. But missing something I need. 

Angie said it most succinctly: 

It sounds like you need a few more casual statement pieces in your wardrobe, but they have to work for your lifestyle.

Bingo. 

But what are those pieces? 

LisaP noted: 

I always have one or two statement pieces in every clothing and accessory category...

Now, is that ever smart! Because at the moment, my winter statement items for my work-at-home capsule tend to be:

  • Footwear --- which I don't even wear indoors for my work-at-home life
  • Belts (which I do wear -- but that explains why I get tired of the jeans and semi-tucked pullover look)
  • Scarves (which I wear for reasons of practicality and warmth but often wish I didn't have to wear -- and that's a thread in itself!)

The truth is, it's almost as if I have trouble recognizing what a "statement" item would be (never mind allowing myself to buy it). This is why Zara has been a boon to me -- they often make "statement-y" high-fashion items and the cost is such that I feel okay taking the risk. 

Angie suggested that I add a bright coloured streak to my hair, and I am strongly considering that. There's a good chance that I will be wearing my specs less in future, in which case this option would be even more appealing. I intend to explore it with my hairdresser as soon as I rejoin the land of the healthy. Another option is to change my hairstyle. 

But my question, now, if you have read this far (and thank you for doing that!) is: 

What are some casual statement items that might work for my work-at-home winter life? I picked up two recently -- the most casual of the casual. (In Finds). 

Do you have other suggestions? Please share -- and they can be any category -- tops, bottoms, accessories, coats, jackets, footwear -- you name it. Even if it's something that I wouldn't wear a lot in the house, it's still worth looking at just in case. 

What are YOUR casual statements if you work from home -- or even if you don't? 

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97 Comments

  • PalmFronds replied 9 years ago

    Great thought process Suz! Right now I am working from home with a 5 month old in tow so I understand what you are saying. For me in winter a scarf and sweater would be my top choices as statement pieces for indoors( a coat wins hands down otherwise). Maybe those dressier sweatshirts Angie mentioned are in line for what you seek? Fun cords as winter pants would be another thing I would add. I recently fell into fashion frenzy abd bought a blanket plaid scarf, so that keeps me feeling current although I guess I would not wear it IN the house...

  • PalmFronds replied 9 years ago

    Oh also I have a thing for cashmere, a terrible love affair! I wear cashmere sweaters in bright colors as my winter statements

  • Diana replied 9 years ago

    Well, mine tend to be:
    --crazy pants (your toile sweats would definitely qualify; also patterned jeans, harem pants, things like that).
    --statement sweaters (think cable knits, interesting shapes, prints etc, like the halogen floral or tanya's cable tunic); sweatshirts would work too; think along the lines of the bobeau tree print.

  • replied 9 years ago

    I'm going to be following this thread ve-ry...ve-ry... care-fu-lly!

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Ooh, Diana - I love that Autumn Cashmere gilet! Wonder if it would work. 

    I am totally on board with print pants. That is one thing I finally realized -- I actually prefer my prints on the bottom to the top. Especially if I am wearing specs. So now I have 2 plaid jeans, 1 plaid trouser, and one print one, plus the print sweatpants. 

    Palmfronds, I bought a cashmere sweater in a bright colour and adore it, and am strongly considering adding another. Thank you. 

    :) Diane....

  • Angie replied 9 years ago

    Bingo indeed. You HIT the nail on the head with your analysis, Suz. I can relate to SO much of what you wrote. I also LOVE my Essentials. But the Statements and Regulars are as important. And you needed to analyze your very successful Summer wardrobe in order to replicate the strategy for cold weather. Well done. 

    Here's my two cents: 

    First of all, LIGHTENING UP will help a lot. Hope you find a suitable white puffer, light booties, and matching belt. 

    Plaid shirts - have you found any yet? They are fun to layer under essentials, and I've found that they boosted my Fall wardrobe this year. I now have FOUR.  I wore this combinationa a few times and loved it. Since you are one of three others on this forum who would actually layer a shirt under a T-neck, I'm passing on the idea: 

    http://youlookfab.com/finds/co.....ection=267

    Focus on colourful and interesting knitwear (I can help you on a separate thread and my top picks lists might interest you too). I am FINALLY able to wear the outfit I pinned 3 years ago because I found the right tomato red pullover three days ago. It's a perfect match with my old tomato red coat. Both are Statements, and I wear them with Essentials. 

    Pattern & Shine. Do not underestimate the power of a patterned piece or a shiny piece. They can really lift your wardrobe. 

    And on that note, I also highly recommend a pair or two of Hectic Pants. I wear my yellow tartan pants and gold jeans year round. They make major Statements in a very simple style. And they are both three years old - and still going strong. 

  • replied 9 years ago

    Oh, Angie. I do wish you were in the UK to recommend buying choices for me here!

  • Runcarla replied 9 years ago

    Looking back at what I have posted in WIW, I see a definite trend with colour and WHITES in the summer and then a fade to dark neutrals as the weather gets colder. I'm so understanding of how all that darkness can contribute to outfit boredom (and maybe even SAD) for anyone who has to deal with long dark winters.

    This year I am hoping my WINE coloured corduroys ($10 at Mark's Work Warehouse) and the WHITE Zara corduroys ($65) will be the antidote to dark bottoms. I was having trouble finding the mustard yellow I wanted, so have picked up some dark coral/tomatoe red tops. I will be experimenting with Angie's wine/tomatoe red/white/cognac through the winter, including mixing some wine with cobalt (it works!). Colour is my preferred statement, followed by contrast. I have a black and white houndstooth skirt and blush pink sweater with black embroiderie that are 'statement'.

    I don't know that bold colour would be a comfortable solution for you, but what about a run at winter white? I know our weather doesn't seem conducive to keeping it pristine, but heck, I've already spotted my Zara pants with spaghetti sauce and wine. Tossed it in the wash with stain remover, hot water, a bit of bleach....

    A single stripe of bold hair colour would be fun. You could change it up monthly to keep it fresh. Fushia one month, purple another, then blue? These would go with your neutral and predominantly blue and wine wardrobe.

    The toile is fab! Don't you have a lovely blue toile T?

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Carla, that blue T is the reason I snapped up this sweatshirt. It isn't really toile, but an Oriental pattern. And it got ruined in this year's wash. But I had loved it so much, and the toile of the sweatshirt reminded me of it. I knew I'd enjoy wearing this. 

    Diane, I hear you, but if I can facilitate any shopping from Canada, do let me know. 

    Angie, thank you SO much! Absolutely, I am eager to see a knitwear thread. I have been poring over your Finds and have a number of those items in my own Finds, my own shopping cart, or my own cupboard, already! 

    I still haven't found "my" plaid shirt. I see the LLBean one is going to be available again in XXS in January -- I think I am going to pre-order it. That's the one I have liked most of all I've seen. 

    And I love the gingham layering with a T neck and will certainly try it with my J. Crew shirt. I can also try it with a cropped navy crew neck -- in fact, that's an outfit on my "to wear" list for as soon as I get well. (Still sick, alas...and wanting the comfort of knits next to skin). 

    The good news: I DO own white, cream, and "sand" (light taupe) jeans. I still need to find a lighter puffer or wool coat, and a more refined pair of taupe booties or boots. 

    I also own an off-white turtleneck. I think I could use another light sweater or two. I own mid tone colours, but not a lot of lights for winter. 

    LOVE hectic pants, too, Angie. For some reason, I don't like solid brights for pants (on myself), but I adore patterns. So I'm going to be on the lookout for a few more of those, for sure. 

    I'm also strongly considering some more sweatpant type looks -- maybe the J. Crew wool sweatpant, or similar -- and not in a regular neutral, but in some kind of pattern or colour. 

    Great ideas, everyone -- thank you! And keep them coming! 

  • Eliza replied 9 years ago

    Suz- similar dilemmas here and I follow your threads carefully, with appreciation.

    For me, part of the amping up of my non-working (I know you work from home often, as well as do work travel, etc), cold weather wardrobe process has been about giving myself permission to invest in casual, yet high quality, current statement pieces to wear for daily routines and date nights or outings. It was so much easier to rationalize fashion expenditures when I labeled them as "for work". Now, I am content to say I want a wardrobe that works "for me." So, for example, I have a versatile ponte knit top like I might have had before as an essential- but this replacement becomes a statement piece as it is an assymetrical HL that I can dress up or down, is quite up to date and FUN. I am not going to be too precious about my investments. I wear them to make my daily, often mundane, routine more spicy. I did a similar thing with pants and lots of sweaters. Current, colorful, interesting, and quality. Sometimes a bit of splurging and sometimes a style "risk", but not a financial one. You are getting great tips here. I am buying for my real life now (used to gravitate towards too dressy and then not wear enough to justify), but elevating things piece by piece. Didn't really need lambskin suede grey/blue Theory pants or look for them, but found them at TJMaxx Runway. They are soft and warm, great with cream sweater and cream booties. I will wear them out for a nice dinner or to shop on dry winter days. Got them for the price of a nice pair of designer jeans and will treat them accordingly.

    Long way of saying that there is a wardrobe analysis component to this, as well as a mindset about prioritizing different aspects of our fashion lives. Additionally, there is a shared history of winter wardrobe burnout that is good to anticipate. Love how all the wisdom here helps pull things together.

    Thanks for the dialogue and hope you are feeling better.

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Oooh, Eliza, I want your pants!! :) 

    I think I would probably have more luck finding my statement items if I had more brick and mortar options. I wonder if I'm crazy in thinking that sometimes a statement has to walk right up to you and say: HI!! before you even recognize it as your new best friend? And that happens so much more in brick and mortar stores. Hmmm. 

    I also think that "fun" might be a word I need to embrace, going forward. "Fun." Along with "shine," "unusual shape" and a few others. 

  • gryffin replied 9 years ago

    Suz - I work outside of the home but there is crossover between work and smart casual home capsules.  I don't wear color just black/gray/smidge of white/denim for the most part.  For me belts are a huge part of my style statement.  I have a number of styles with interesting details and that really changes the look of my outfits.  Also I go for a lot of interesting texture, hemlines or detail.  I bought the tunic length EF ribbed cowl last year and she had a cropped edition this year that I got in charcoal gray.  I can semi-tuck over the belt of be worn loose - nice multi styling options.  The cowl was also a different neckline for me and that provided novelty too.  I'm always cold so my home toppers, at work all blazers, are cardis.  I love the ombre of the blardigan and unusual silhouette for me, also the HL sonar cardigan can be worn open, belted and had a hook on one side so it looks like a jedi tunic (okay, so they had me at jedi!) the style multitasks.  I'm a leggings girl so the skirted leggings were a nice riff and let me wear my just too short for regular leggings sweaters so that opened up more possibilities.  Since my feet run cold it's merrell ice (lined) clogs and socks so interesting boots/bootes only if I am leaving the house.  Last thing - fabrics that feel sublime and make you never want to take them off - I go for the tactile pleasure!!  So to sum up - different silhouettes in my colors, interesting hems/necklines, texture within a piece but also pieces that feel wonderful on, pieces that can be worn in multiple ways (anyone try the dkny cozy sweater? that might be a fun addition!!), interesting belts - these are the things that keep my wardrobe fresh and fun for me!!  Hope that helps! ;-)

  • replied 9 years ago

    Those of use who live in places with long winters expect a lot out of our wardrobes when in fact the boredom and closet fatigue probably has less to do with the actual things we wear and more to do with being cooped up inside for longer periods of time and the repetitiveness of the days.  I don't think clothes can change any of that for me so I look elsewhere.  

    I do find that I will add to my wardrobe in, say, January and Feb when things are really marked down (it's usually when I pick up a new jacket or coat or boots to keep myself entertained) and there is still lots of time left to wear winter things. I  am far less likely to do that in the summer.  And other than that, I don't really think about it much.  I am far more likely to wear coloured nail polish during the winter and that too makes me feel more pulled together and looking interesting. But I'm maybe the oddball who is fine with wearing the same 3 or 4 Roots sweatshirts and bamboo fleece lined leggings over and over again for my evenings at home all winter long :)  As long as my hair and makeup are done when I'm having an office day....the outfit is not important. 

    That's my story and I'm sticking to it :)  

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Lisa, that's an interesting idea. I never wear polish on my hands -- the typing ruins it. But I'll bet my pedicure is one reason I get less bored in summer. Hmmm. Too bad. I definitely agree about mid-season winter refreshers. I did that last year and really enjoyed my new purchases. I'll do the same again, I'm certain. 

    Gryffin, you gave me an excellent idea. I had just decided that I do not care for leggings on myself. At all. I tried a pair this year -- they are nice. But I don't like them on me. Why? I have no idea. I DO like legging jeans and have a few pairs of those and wear them a lot in winter tucked into boots. 

    But looking at that legging skirt, I am very, very intrigued. I SO miss my skirts in  winter. It's just hard to wear them in my casual life. Tights get torn by my kitty. But a skirted legging...that's a whole different thing. I can actually imagine enjoying that, with my flat boots and some longer, asymmetrical and regular tunic sweaters. I am going to investigate. Thank you!! 

  • replied 9 years ago

    I'm interested in , and curious about these skirted leggings gryffin has referred to on more than what occasion.  What, where, when , who etc ?  I can't say I've ever seen any other than in lululemon as a workout piece. Do you know what these are?

  • catgirl replied 9 years ago

    Our plaid Kuts are the perfect casual statement to my mind.  They can be dressed up or down and are subtly eyecatching.  Also love my Joie asymmetric tunic sweaters.  I think asymmetry is my #1 go to detail for statement without fuss.

  • Angie replied 9 years ago

    First, I'm applauding Eliza by touching on a HUGE essential piece of the puzzle. You have to give yourself permission to invest in statement pieces for a casual lifestyle - and not be precious about it. There in lies probably the biggest hurdle for those who face working from home and leading very casual lives. 

    Suz, sounds like you are well on your way with ideas, and focusing on the right components to add to your wardrobe. White-Out for you, includes light grey, so give that a bash too. And SILVER. 

    FWIW, I do find plaid flannel shirts much nicer to layer with from now till about March. They are warmer and cozier than my crisp Summer shirts. My white shirts feel so cold against my skin, which makes me reluctant to wear them as much as layering pieces. 

  • Suja replied 9 years ago

    What a  great analysis.  Worthy of a guest blog post perhaps.  Creating interest and variety is probably the area I spend the most of my wardrobe mindshare on.  A few things that have worked for me:

    1) Cute Slippers.  If you are at home, I can't underemphasize the importance of slippers that make you feel fab.  I have a pair of black bootie slippers that I wore with black slim pants (with the hem rolled to show a little skin).  I really felt great!  I am on the lookout for leopard and white bootie slippers so I can recreate this look.

    2) Interesting layering.  This is an area I'm still working on, but Angie's suggestions of a loose button down shirt under a fashion forward top (such as an asymmetrical hem line or short sleeved knitwear) look awesome.  Striped under layers look interesting under knitwear too.

    4) Dresses in winter.  This isn't for everyone, but if you have a comfortable dress with long sleeves, it looks fab over slim pants or leggings.  A dress can also look fab with a long cozy cardigan over it with fleece tights instead of leggings.  

    5) Color and white.  These have already been mentioned but I second bright colors (my favorites are mixing bright pink and orange or cobalt and bright green).  And white jeans make everything look fab.

    6)  Leather Leggings or pants.  I have a pair of faux leather leggings from Hue that male everything fashionable.  They are black but I am not the hunt for a burgundy faux suede.  It's amazing what some texture can do.

    Great topic and probably relevant to most people.

  • jackiec replied 9 years ago

    Suz, I so appreciate your thoughful analysis. For some reason I can't even get my head around sorting my wardrobe into essentials vs. statements. I prefer to remain intuitive and get stressed out by labels. But realistically most of my bottoms are essentials, same with tops, with a few statement sweaters/tops. I also prefer to let my footwear be the "statement." 

    If it's ok with you, I'm just going to sail along beneath your wings and see where it takes you. I also feel the need to get some plaid shirts. I think they could really take things to another level. As well, I could also use some pattern on the bottom. We've had a run of super wet weather, and I've already become bored with my long over lean plus boots formula. Jeez. A little pattern on the bottom might brighten that up.

    I'm also similar to you in that I wear scarves by necessity, and I actually do enjoy them. I find they do act as my statement piece quite often. I tend to gravitate to a grey/black animal print, and also a maroon infinity scarf that I wear with blacks or neutrals. A punch of colour or pattern around my neck is usually all I do. I recently picked up a swath of fab plaid fabric whilst shopping for viking-sail fabric for DS' school project. I can't wait to finish the edges and wear it as a scarf (admittedly I already tried it out unfinished).

    OK, so bottom line is that I really have no advice for you because I really feel like I'm plonked in the exact same boat as you - except that you are way more advanced at this than me. I will be following this thread with interest and literally be taking notes.

    BTW I ordered that floral sweatshirt that Angie listed in her ensemble on Friday. Not sure if it'll work, but hopefully it'll be a fun statement top to change things up. I'm pretty sure I'm a non-pattern princess trying to move forward....

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Angie, you got it!! It picks up on what Gryffin said.

     It's not SHIRTS I object to during these cold months...it's the fabrication! I want soft and cozy! Now I get it. 

    Okay. I obviously need to get myself some flannel shirts. After all, I do love my flannel PJs!  :) 

    Una, I love our plaid pants but they are a very subtle statement for me because so dark. Darkness works better with your colouring. I need to add something lighter -- that's why the lighter plaid ones made sense for me to buy.  
    I am 150% with you on the love of asymmetry, though. That is a brilliant detail and I need to incorporate more of it this year. 

    And Lisa, I'm not sure. Given EF's quality, I'll bet her skirted legging is somehow better than most of the athletic versions -- but I'm not sure. The one thing that gives me pause is they say the fabric isn't really warm enough for outdoors in winter. Gryffin, if you come back, can you please comment on that? 

  • replied 9 years ago

    Wow, I am really learning from this thread. Hmm, unlike you Suz I think I like pattern on both top and bottom. I think it can make life easier though if one has a preference for one or the other and then items play more easily together. I could also use a tad more lightness in my Winter wardrobe. I love Eliza's statement that Angie picked up on about giving oneself permission to invest in a casual at home wardrobe. And Suja's idea about cute animal print slippers. I already have one new pair of indoor shoes, but wouldn't say no to more choice :)

  • Suja replied 9 years ago

    I tried the EF leggings but got an athletic version from Zella instead.  The fabric was the deal breaker for me, the viscose was thin and looked like it would pill.  I think I am the only person on YLF that has had an EF viscose piece pill so I didn't want to chance another piece.

    I love the skirted Zella leggings except that the skirt is a wee bit short.  I use it for exercise, so it doesn't really matter but the EF proportions were better for fashion.

  • Angie replied 9 years ago

    Diane, sorry, I meant to address you in my earlier comment. Hopefully you can apply some of these principles along with what you learned last week about getting dressed for your lifestyle. AND, we can go shopping together at NEXT if you like. Very easy from YLF. xo

    Jackie and Suz, using scarves to "amp things up" works just fine for outside - but fails bismally indoors. Just like shoes, bags, hats, jackets and coats fail as bismally. I am off scarves, other than my Burberry, and only wear them out of necessity to keep warm when out and about. I do not like wearing them as a Statement any more. GET THOSE COZY PLAID SHIRTS. Not to sound bossy or anything. 

    *smiling* 

    Suz, I 100% agree about your dark plaid pants failing a little in the Statement category. They are too dark and tonal. They need to be HECTIC to fulfill the criteria. 

  • replied 9 years ago

    ok - so it's Eileen Fisher?  That was all I was curious about.  And one more thing to add, as I read more responses here, I'm thinking about my absolutely favourite 2 pieces for stay at home days:  a Roots sweatshirt tunic/dress piece (looped terry lined, not fleece, so drapier and nicer) with a dropped tie-waist that I wear with ruched calf Roots leggings. I know you are not a leggings fan but the dress (not long enough to really be worn as a dress) is long enough to cover all. The leggings (and I wish I had bought more of them when they and them) are really nice and more interesting because of the ruched back lower leg.  I bought both pieces together at least 2 years ago and I love wearing this. It's by far my favourite go-to look for casual wear. I can even wear it to grab groceries or go to the post office and just stick my feet in some casual boots and pop on my ivory puffer.  Note to self to get another of these dresses if I can find one - Roots is one of my go-to's for at home wear. 

  • replied 9 years ago

    Oh, bless you Angie! Thank you for the offer xo. And you're right. I am adding the knowledge gained here to what I learned last week. Thanks Suz for starting this thread! And on your sick bed too! *passes a big bowl of chicken soup to say thanks* :)

  • Angie replied 9 years ago

    Diane, xo

    Suz and Jackie, OLD outfit post, but you get the picture. I like to layer ROOMY knitwear over plaid shirts as well. Very cozy for at home. 

    And Suz, sending feel better energy your way. xo

  • Jem replied 9 years ago

    As a side note Suz, why can't you polish your nails when you type?  Why don't you try Gel Polish (soak off variety)?  I use it and it lasts 10 days to 2 weeks!  :-)  Just another colorful thing you can try in the winter...  

  • retailgirl replied 9 years ago

    Lisap: you can find skirted leggings on QVC. Legacy brand, ( I think that's their brand), around $30. I'm not really a leggings fan, and when I first saw the skirted leggings I thought they were kind of strange but having seen them on the models on TV, I like them. They definitely give you more top options and eliminate any chance of making the faux pas of wearing leggings as pants.

  • gryffin replied 9 years ago

    Suz - I was looking for a knit skirt to layer over leggings with the EF skirted version came out.  They are not as heavy as my old danskin supplex leggings but I usually wear knee high or over the knee boots in cold weather so I find them just fine.  You don't have to worry about the skirt revolving and it's easier to have it as one piece.  The skirt is short Suz, finger tip length on me, about 18" from natural waist (so it's a mini) or 33" from shoulder line.  Pairs beautifully with short tunics.  In reference to Suja's comment, I do find that EF vicose pills, some worse than others.  The problem is elegant interesting tunics and skirted leggings are hewi's.  I'd rather pony up, wear them to death and get another than not have them.  Best if you can get them on sale because at full price it's annoying to say the least - but this is goal oriented purchasing.  Suz - you could put tights under these leggings but with boots I don't do that but I do wear knee socks.  Suja - EF washable silk is the bomb.  If you can find it in silk it's indestructable.  It's really interesting Suz - we're opposites.  I don't like jeggings, I love leggings.  With that and jackets, we're like the flip side of a coin!!   

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Gryffin, thanks for adding your experience and wisdom! Yes, it's so funny -- we are near body doubles in some ways but I think your longer slimmer legs (proportionately) make the difference for what suits on the bottom half (and then also the top half, just by association.) Though I have always ADORED long over short, ever since the 80s, and would love to wear it! So I'm always looking for solutions to my little dilemma. Though that does not explain the jeggings/ vs. leggings preferences...I think it is the added structure of jeggings that I prefer, now that I think of it. They don't feel as exposing. A skirt would help with that. 

    I wonder if I should try this skirted legging thing in a less expensive version first to see if I enjoy wearing it? I could always look at the better athletic versions. Hmmm.....

    retailgirl, good to know there are options. And interesting that they worked for you. 

    Jem, you are so right. My mother wears the gel nails. I guess it is a "splurge" for me -- and my style is more bare nails. But I could still do it for fun at least once and see how it feels, right? Right. That is what "giving oneself permission" is all about. :)

    Angie, I always loved that outfit. Clearly I need to get me some plaid flannel shirts, pronto! 

    And scarves, yes, scarves. I DO still wear them indoors with my lower collared sweaters...Firecracker and I are sisters in this, and both feel similar about it, although the scarf thing works better for her eclectic style. There I am, trying to simplify, and still always adding that extra piece. Now, don't get me wrong -- I do enjoy the pattern, colour, and often the texture of a scarf. But I get tired of making my outfits depend on them. 

    Good suggestion to take another look at Roots, Lisa. They do have some terrific quality stuff. 

    Suja, I am definitely going to take a peek at Zella. Can you remind me how tall you are? If you are taller than me, the skirt might work for my height. 

    And what are "bootie slippers?" You have me completely intrigued and I think this may be an excellent idea. 

    I have trouble layering dresses over leggings and pants -- it always feels bunchy to me. But maybe if I had a shift dress it would work better. I love the idea of some suede or leather pants or some with insets. Thank you! 

    Diane, you absolutely deserve to buy nice statement items for at home. We will support each other in doing that! 

    Jackie, I see some plaid flannel shirts in our future.  :)

  • replied 9 years ago

    I am puzzled by your aversion to leggings.  You are clearly in great shape and there is no reason you can't wear them.  You mentioned feeling exposed in leggings - but one would wear only tops and tunics and sweaters that are bum covering, right?  I don't think anyone ventures forth outside of the gym without the top covering one's personal bits:)  I cannot even imagine a world without leggings - in fact, i'm wearing one of two new pair I picked up the other day. These are heathered grey , lovely soft stretchy thick knit, and I'm wearing it with a long tunic-like Nike sweatshirt (totally covers front and back and then some ) .  The Roots ones I mentioned wearing under the minidress are more the traditional gym lycra (but not that tight at all - never!) thicker but silky hand leggings with a nice wide waistband.  They are such a staple for me, and if I can wear them and not look nor feel  bulky (and trust me, I get it) , you of all women wouldn't either. I've got to be a good 20 lbs heavier than you and it works for me. 

  • gryffin replied 9 years ago

    Suz - just one more thought.  I know we both have the gap funnel neck gray sweater.  I don't like it on me with regular leggings.  It's too short.  Anything less than 33" does not fly with regular leggings.  But I adore that sweater for me with the skirted leggings because it adds those couple of inches.  I wonder if it's the length of the tunic that's throwing you.  Just a thought.  With jeggings, I generally want to still wear a tunic and you get the zipper bump, also it's just easier to get leggings perfectly flat and comfy in boots.  I always get knee bunch with jeggings or too much extra fabric at the ankles.  Kudos for being able to make that work!!

  • jackiec replied 9 years ago

    Ah Suz I share your aversion to leggings! Can't put my finger on it, and I practically live in my 3 colours of AE jegging jeans. It's just that they are pretty much just stretchy jeans with quite a bit of heft.

    I am compelled to hit the malls to try on some plaid shirts in person. Angie's orders (or so I will tell DH) :) :) :)

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Lisa, I think it is partly because my legs are on the short side. And my thighs are the biggest part of me. So it's difficult for me to find tunics that hit me in a flattering place. It may also be related to having a small bust, although I think gryffin is also on the small-up-top side and she manages this. 

    I only own ONE true tunic top that I like. I tried pretty hard this year to buy some longer tunic blouses but they were so oversized elsewhere that they pretty much overwhelm me unless I semi-tuck. Which sort of defeats the purpose. I also own two longer sweaters, oversized...but they feel too short and exposing to me, even though, technically, they cover the lady bits. :) They are fine with the jeggings (that zipper, you know) but not with the plain stretchy front legging. 

    So...yeah...ultimately it has to do with proportions, and my not getting them right somehow with leggings and tunics. And feeling SQUAT in leggings, somehow. Again, the long tops increase that perception for me. Because they visually shorten my already short legs unless everything is monochrome. 

  • Inge replied 9 years ago

    I loved reading your analysis, Suz, and agree that a mix of essentials and statement pieces is the way to go. So many excellent suggestions from the other ladies too. (and I'm still super excited about the streak in your hair idea, do keep us posted). 

    This is what first came to mind when I started reading your thoughts (and some of the below has already been mentioned by others):

    - Light and bright colours (both tops and bottoms)
    - Shine
    - Patterns and texture
    - Tops and tunics with asymmetric details
    - Interesting (long) vest
    - Patterned jeans/different silhouette denim/coated denim?
    - A few extra pairs of fun sweatpants/track pants
    - How about a sweater dress? I hear you about the layering, but I suddenly started thinking about a ponte knit sweater dress and leggings combo I bought years ago. They were a beautiful blue, very substantial ponte. The leggings had a seam which made them interesting and a little more dressy. The just-above-the-knee dress had pockets and a great boatneck colour. So comfortable, interesting and stylish. I wore this combo until the clothes practically fell apart, and then was sad to have to say goodbye.
    - Interesting skinny pants (bright colour and/or interesting design details) to tuck into knee-high boots or to wear with booties

    - A new pair of earrings that you love to bits (perhaps designed especially for you?). You could wear those every day, and have a fab/interesting piece of jewellery close to your face.

    I started looking around for fun pieces, and am afraid I went a little overboard and collected tons. I'll add everything below, hope you don't feel overwhelmed by it all;-)

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Gryffin, you are so right. Yes, that sweater is JUST too short for leggings. (I actually had to give it up because it was too scratchy for me, but now I have two other sweaters a similar length -- too short!) 

    33" -- I see. Well....I will need to do some thinking and measuring. As I said to Lisa, I really only have one sweater that is a real tunic. 

    I am not sure why I don't get too much knee bunching with the jeggings and boots. I do get it with skinnies -- but I guess it is just a question of picking the fabrication, or it could be because my legs are heftier so they are more stretched out, as it were -- snugger all along the leg, probably? And the one tunic I own is very loose at the waist so I don't notice a bump at the waist from the jeans. Hmmm....

    Jackie, you share my feelings? Yet you are tall and slender. This is becoming curiouser and curiouser!! 

  • CocoLion replied 9 years ago

    I have a leggings issue as well.  I just don't feel dressed.  I will wear them to sleep in though.  The skirted leggings look fun though.

    We finally have cool weather here, in the 50s.  For the first time in years, I am dressing up more when at home.  Wearing skinnies instead of distressed boyfriend jeans, woven shirts rather than tees and throw on cardigans.  I do think you need to make a mental commitment and just do it.  I always think of E as inspiration, who dresses up to stay inside yet looks comfortable.

    The point about not feeling precious about clothes is key.  I'm not there yet.  I had a pashmina that hung unworn for years, I finally decided to wear it as a bed shawl and for lounging.  My cat immediately put three snags in it, it's back on the shelf.  The minute I commit something to my casual stay at home capsule, it can get damaged.  I think I am an extreme example of this, living on a ranch with lots of unpaved spaces, a dry windy climate, lots of animals.  The stickers (brambles?) outside attach themselves to knitwear and it snags.

    ETA -- I love your list Inge!

  • Inge replied 9 years ago

    Sweaters, part 1.

  • replied 9 years ago

    Hmm, I tend to feel nekkid when I wear leggings! Even with a decent length tunic. I have two pairs of thicker ponte knit leggings which are more like jeggings, and even then I wear thights under them. Leggings to me feel like glorified tights. Much too thin! It's definitely a fabrication thing for me. I love Inges outfit description of the ponte dress. I'd wear a jegging under that. Fab list too!

  • Angie replied 9 years ago

    I'm chuckling at Sweetheart Inge with her ample and fun Finds suggestions. xo

    YES, Denise. I don't feel *dressed* in leggings either. Same with t-shirts. I sleep in them so they don't feel right when I wear them as non-pjs. BUT. That said, I have lots of clients who enjoy wearing them like Suja and Gryffin do - especially leatherette leggings - and I fully support the outfit combinations. 

  • jackiec replied 9 years ago

    Oh gosh I am loving this thread! Great sweaters Inge!

    I love the point about wearing things and not keeping them "precious." I have a tendency to do so, and am trying to break out of it. Case in point, the other day I was wearing a vince pullover and jeans. I'd usually save the Vince pullover for "going out" but ended up vacuuming the entire house that day. Boy, I felt fab!

    Suz - I just ordered that LLBean scotch plaid shirt in XS. Crossing my fingers for my first foray into plaid-shirt-land. Angie's orders.

    I find it very very interesting how similar our tastes run. Could it be that we are somehow related? Similar tastes in leggings (none), drape (minimal), colours (taupes, berries, navy - I love your colours and somehow think many are the same for me), silhouettes, etc. The list goes on.

    I may appear taller but proportionately I feel quite stocky. My legs are proportionately shorter. Can't put my finger on it. But we run strangely similar I do see ;)

    Hey, you are one of my style icons so I'm happy about that!!!!

  • replied 9 years ago

    alright, I have to get off the internet today and get something done, and stop adding useless thoughts about my own experiences here :)  but......one last bit to throw out there: have you ever seen these two lines?
    http://www.stellacarakasi.com

    http://www.neonbuddha.net

    Neon Buddha is Canadian too.  Some of the stuff gets a little ALGO and artsy but there are always a couple of pieces in each collection that are really cool. I have a few pieces - all cotton, all wash and wear like no-body's business. Good colours too.

    I've been a little obsessed with Stella C but have never actually seen in myself. I am always pretend- buying off of their website but have never pulled the trigger.  Great knit pieces.  

    Ok, I'll stop now and go get some housework done.  

  • Inge replied 9 years ago

    Thanks Denise and Jackie:-)
    LOL, Angie, I went "a little" crazy again:-)
    And I hear you ladies who don't feel "dressed" in leggings, I am the same way, but those ponte knit leggings I wrote about above were the exception to the rule. So that's another example for me of never saying never. (also: it was a very casual ensemble, so I mostly wore it to work at home and for very casual outings).
    Oh, and Jackie and Suz: I now have 2 of those L.L. Bean plaid shirts and couldn't be more happy with them. Fab drape, beautiful quality and super cozy.

    OK, sweaters and sweatshirts (and 2 interesting cardis), part 2.

  • Inge replied 9 years ago

    More sweaters, yep.
    (p.s. I covet that Vince Intarsia Color Block Sweater)

  • Inge replied 9 years ago

    A few shirts/blouses.

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Oh my heavens, Inge -- now I am in shopping heaven!! Some of those Massimo Dutti and Karen Millen items were already in my own Finds...I just hadn't pulled the trigger. So it is very affirming to see you choose them, too! I am going to give them another look. 

    I have never ordered from Karen Millen -- Angie says she runs small I believe? 

    Lisa, I'm also going to check those options. The Stella C looks very interesting. And you're right -- when you are looking for "statement" a bit of "arty" may not go amiss. 

     I am fascinated -- we now have a  growing list of women who don't feel dressed or flattered by leggings. And another long list of legging lovers! So fascinating. And Inge, who never says never and found the *one* magic pair that worked for her. 

    I have a feeling the skirted legging thing could work for me as a change up. But I'm not going to commit to the expensive EF version for now. I'll keep hunting for another. 

    Angie, I also don't wear tees very often. For years I didn't wear them at all except as layering pieces under something structured (i.e. a jacket) that I did not intend to take off. In the past few summers, I embraced linen 3/4 length sleeve tees and they worked for me, though typically I still layered over those. I also have two printed short sleeve tees for very hot, very casual days, and I did find them extremely useful and fun. 

    I know for me, the feeling about leggings really is partly to do with structure. This is all so fascinating and everyone is so unique. 

    Thank you so much for weighing in now, and I can see I have some fun shopping ahead of me. Not least, figuring out what "bootie slippers" are. :)

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    OH WOW!!! MORE!! Inge, you win the award for most amazing shopper in the world. Thank you so much!! 

    Okay, I am going to spend tomorrow in my sickbed following these leads. 

    ETA: and my LL Bean shirt is backordered, but I've pulled the trigger. Got some slippers, too. :)

  • Angie replied 9 years ago

    Suz, Karen Millen runs very small. Run things by me first before you order. And I'm glad you've found a way for tees to work for you. xo

  • Inge replied 9 years ago

    It's my pleasure, Suz (and I'm not done yet;-) and high fiving you, we often do have very similar taste!
    Window shopping from your bed, I like the sound of that:-)
    And yes, Karen Millen does run small. Often lots of fab stuff.
    Yay for the plaid shirt, I'm holding thumbs that the fit will be perfect. Which slippers did you get?

    ETA: about those leggings: I did only wear them in combination with the long ponte knit dress, so that definitely helped to feel less exposed.

    Moving on to trousers:

  • Inge replied 9 years ago

    Sweatpants & track pants. I'm intrigued by those two pairs of fleece pants at Zara. I wonder how warm they are.

  • Gaylene replied 9 years ago

    This is a GREAT thread, Suz. It's already sparked a couple of "ah, that's why X languishes in my closet instead of kicking things up a notch..."

    What I've learned:
    My "at home" outfits have to be practical and comfortable to be worn. Scarves, jewelry, polished nails, styled hair, too many layers, or anything I deem "fussy" just won't be in regular rotation. Easy to launder also scores points, as do fabrics that feel good next to my skin.

    Color and pattern are statements to me, BUT they can be tricky. I have a bit of a love/hate relation with patterns, other than stripes, and, while adding a jolt of color often sounds good in theory, in practice, it doesn't always work. I need to be careful to make sure that a pattern or color has a high happiness factor for me before considering it as a statement.

    Silhouette, drape, cut, and design are safer bets for my statement pieces. I adore interesting cuts, fabrics, and shapes--and, more importantly, wear them easily. To me, they provide the built-in drama that I covet. That's why a tweedy grey wool sweatpants and a pair of ponte/leather skinnies are my new favorites this fall. They seem to go with all my slouchy tops and boots without being fussy or demanding. My plaid Zara shirt was an impulse buy, but I fell for the grey and berry colors, oversized chest pockets, slouchy style, and cosy fabric, easy wash and wear. Lots of checked boxes at a super price!

    And, finally, my biggest AH/HA is that adding Statements to one's wardrobe has to be a very personal thing. It's easier to share our Essentials as in "Here's a great navy cashmere sweater" or "If you are looking for a slouchy jean for an IT, you might want to try X". Statements, however, are trickier because they are much more revealing of our personal likes and dislikes, lifestyles, and instinctive reactions. Statements add excitement, but everyone has different ways and ideas of making that happen--which maybe is what leads to that elusive personal style we are all hankering for?
    Anyway, this has been a great thread!

  • Inge replied 9 years ago

    This is the last one, promise:-)

    Fun jeans, some more trousers, and a fab Club Monaco cardigan.

  • jackiec replied 9 years ago

    My word, Inge, you are killing it today! I LOVE it! Thanks for all of the fab fab finds! This thread is like a little Saturday present :)  So fun!

    Suz - I bought a Karen Millen raincoat in London three years ago and I believe it's a size 10. I am pretty consistently a 10, maybe an 8 in European sizing. Not sure if that helps. Sounds like Angie can help you out.

    I am also in love with so many Karen Millen pieces. Lusting after these boots that Angie showed me, which again strikes a chord for me about often having shoes/boots as the statement item. Again, I digress.

    Can't tell you how much I'm enjoying this thread. I keep forgetting to log off YLF as I go about my day, so every time I pass by my computer here we go again ;)

  • replied 9 years ago

    Gaylene nailed it:  

    " Statements, however, are trickier because they are much more revealing of our personal likes and dislikes, lifestyles, and instinctive reactions. Statements add excitement, but everyone has different ways and ideas of making that happen--which maybe is what leads to that elusive personal style we are all hankering for?"

    Just when I/one  thinks they  must be behind the times, or deluded (more likely for me- lol) in liking scarves, or really liking leggings, that reminded me that those are MY statement pieces, or ways that I make a look MINE .  Personal and statement not being the same thing, but they share the idea of uniqueness.  btw - I changed to a great buffalo plaid shirt (try Joe Fresh , Suz, they have tons right now for $20 !) and new black leggings that I'll wear with adidas stan smiths, and a big black cardigan (almost to the knees, so I use it to wrap and cover ) to DD's ultimate game tonite:)  That's MY look, and I like it!

  • Inge replied 9 years ago

    My pleasure, Jackie:-) I had a ball looking for these items (and am now tempted by quite a lot of them myself, sigh;-)
    Love those booties for you, by the way.

    Lisa - I love your look too!-)

  • Firecracker (Sharan) replied 9 years ago

    This is a really interesting discussion! I wanted to read through it all before I responded, and now I can't think of what I wanted to add.
    There are two things I'd like to add to my wardrobe: the skirted legging and the asymmetrical zip front Karen Millen cardigan! But I'd want the cardigan in a different color, so I'll have to keep the style in mind for sewing.
    Oh, I remember: I wanted to suggest that you look at the pieces you bought in summer that turned your wardrobe into one that you really love, and try to duplicate the feel of them in the winter items you add. Recently I've found myself wanting to grab a linen cardigan that I made last spring/summer, for color and style--but it's not warm enough for the current season. So that tells me I could use a cardigan in a similar color and style, in a warmer fabric.

  • Elly replied 9 years ago

    Suz, I don't know how much help I will be, but this has really got me thinking. You are such a lovely, well organized writer. Obviously you are a professional, but I can't say enough about how often I get turned off of a article or book because the author is just TERRIBLE at organizing their thoughts.

    I know at this point I'm mimicking Angie, but COLOR, PATTERN, TEXTURE, SHINE! Knits with lurex, coated denim, interesting weaves in sweaters, patent and metallic belts, calf hair belts, draping, plaids, polka dots, graphic prints, knit jackets over slim turtlenecks, interesting cut blouses OVER knitwear. Bright color, rich color, monochromatic shade mixing, mixing dark neutrals--- outlandishly bright specs, "funking" up the hair, a collection of bright slippers. Mix up the silhouettes within reason, try track pants again--- so many fabrications! Show off your sporty side and go sporty-lux with gear crossover pieces mixed in. Consider a indoor sneaker! I can't wear polish to work, but if you can stand he stuff (or the new shellac stuff) it can be a really fun way to add non-jewelry interest and polish (no pun intended) to a look.

    I wear bright specs and have a statement haircut and now highlight the front (dark hair, so fairly dramatic) -- the SO reffers to it as "stripey my pet name." I mixed up my shillouttes on the bottom this year and am loving that. I'm utilizing belts and semi-tucking for interest. I have a couple of statement tops for gallery openings (dramatic draping) and one patterned top. I love statement shoes, in great colors!

    Otherwise, all of my work tops are essentials--- fairly basic, or maybe a few regulars, essentials with special details. During the week this works great most of the time because I have a fairly clean style and I layer all day everyday for functionality--- so at least 3/4 of the day the tops are worn with a jacket, and usually with statement shoes. When they aren't worn with a jacket, I'm either in the middle of something very active or dirty and am going for maximum practicality, or I am outside in the warmest part of the day with my bag as an additional accessory, and sometimes a hat and or sunglasses. I DO like scarves and would like to find a couple for work use.

    That said, for the weekends when I will likely be at home or somewhere in just a top, it would be great to have a few warm tops that are higher interest--- even for work when I'm tired of my jackets.

    During the transitional seasons, summer, and my casual style I need more statement pieces (much like your work from home style) because I often wear no shoes or less "statement-y" shoes and don't layer as much. Summer tops need more special details, patterns and colors because I wear fewer pieces and don't have to worry about too much going on with lots of statements AND layers.

  • Sal replied 9 years ago

    Interesting thread....we don't have the same winter to deal with so I don't have all the same issues.  I do think some of the frustration in the second half of the winter is with winter itself....wanting to move into the next season.  Certainly here spring is a wonderful season, but such an unpredictable and frustrating one where you think you can pack away warm clothes and then have a week of chilly cold temperatures and high wind.   

    I love some of your ideas for boosting up the casual winter wardrobe...like many of you my oomph in winter clothing is normally boot or scarf related so when you are indoors outfits can look a little dull.

  • Peri replied 9 years ago

    This thread has been fun to follow! But...I was having a hard time in my earlier thread narrowing down what I wanted to buy and this has just made it worse! It's actually a good thing that I don't do well in turtle necks or other high necks because then I'd really be even more lost!

    It does suggest an intriguing shopping shortcut though...see what I like on other fabbers and just buy that! I think everyone should just immediately post their new purchases and I will go from there. :) :) :)

  • catgirl replied 9 years ago

    I can't remember if you have an F21 near you but I can't stress enough the availability of remarkably nice, inexpensive statement-y tops there. I just got a sleeved poncho (better for coats!) and a WHITE textured sweatshirt for under $40. The quality has really improved and the prices as variety can't be beat, plus they are sized for smaller people.

    Re: leggings, I have a pair of sweater leggings from Hue that I love. They alleviate the feeling of not being dressed. And they are cozy casual perfection. :)

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Peri, it's a disease. I call it "Lemming-itis." And I have it bad. I just bought the sweater that Una bought last night...

    I am busily digesting all of this. And thank you all for participating. As usual, Gaylene really hit it -- essentials are often more share-able. Statements are so personal. So the scarves and leggings that work brilliantly for Lisa will languish in my closet, the fancy nails would be a one-off thing, ditto a lot of jewellery, and so on and so forth. But the plaid jeggings I'll tuck into boots would feel too bulky to someone else. 

    Sharan, I also really like your suggestion to look at what made the summer wardrobe feel good. Unfortunately, some of it is not easily transferable to my winter climate: different silhouettes on the bottom (much harder when the weather gets cold -- I end up giving up my skirts except for special occasions/ going out), lighter colour (can be impractical in the slushy weather), showing more skin (this helps to keep my outfits "mid-tone" which is more flattering to me, personally, than mostly dark or than high contrast). 

    Thank you all again. I'm going to come up with a list of concrete items I plan to try for that "statement" impact. 

    Along with my scarves, that is. Because although I disparage them, they are still really useful and DO add that statement factor, for sure. 

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Una, thank you! No F21 in these parts, alas, although we do have an H&M, but not a very good one. 

  • texstyle replied 9 years ago

    Another HUGE supporter of cozy flannel plaid shirts (or non-plaid flannel shirts). I can't believe it took me so long to buy some of these and today was the first cold morning when I was SO happy to put one on! 

    For accessories I really enjoy collecting and wearing bracelets - mostly stretch style, non-noisy ones that feel really comfortable. Iike to wear several "twisted" together so they stay in place.  I keep looking and adding to the collection and it amuses me and gives me some "fun" for the day to day grind at the home office - and out to the post office, grocery, coffee shop, etc.

  • Peri replied 9 years ago

    Now I'm off to see what sweater Una bought...I love her style! :)

    And I did order the floral sweatshirt...that's pretty statementy if I like it.

  • Isabel replied 9 years ago

    SOOOO much great stuff here that I have to stop looking.

    I really like your analysis and it seems very well thought out.  Now, I am going to suggest something, but please don't tell Angie...shhhhhh.   I LOVE Corduroy and velvet pants.  Yup.  I have a pair of cords every winter. 

    I humbly submit these ( saw them in person while I was "researching" my winter wardrobe and I drooled.  I just do not need more pants.   )

    http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/ku.....pe=related=

    I think that these are awesome too :

    http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/ku.....d&=

    ETA  Have you ever thought of faux fur ?

    http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/de.....38;context

    I have this jacket in a light olive green, it is polar fleece.  And super cozy.  I get compliments everywhere I go. It washes and dries fantastically and is great to where around the house or out on a less chillier day. 

    http://www.patagonia.com/us/pr.....?p=28215-0

  • Sveta replied 9 years ago

    This is a VERY dangerous thread - I blame Inge! Amazing selection and SOOO tempting...
    I was also amazed how pleasant flannel shirt was on a cold day - my word! I think I need another one (or two?) Too bad they do not look that great in solid colors as in plaids.
    Suz, I am thrilled you ordered the shirt - we will be twins. My only complaint about this shirt that it is not as long as I would prefer it to be. I ma toying with the idea to order a man version in size S (need to check first if the length would be good though).
    I do not work from home but I do like to wear dresses with leggings at home. I demoted my Gap dress to wear at home this season as it began to pill too much. It is almost to my knees so looks good with the leggings. 

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    OMG, Isabel, that Patagonia jacket is like a gateway drug!! What are you selling me???   Seriously, I would be in heaven and my kitty would put me on a pedestal in the kitty pantheon. 

    You're all amazing. THANK YOU!!! 

  • Debbie replied 9 years ago

    Love this thread. Inge you have given all of us a lot to look at. Thank-you!
    Suz-thank-you for starting this I am have a horrible time figuring out statement pieces for this season. My problem is not the long winter it is the varying temperature.
    Hope you are feeling better.

  • Lynne replied 9 years ago

    Suz, I love you style and always go straight to your outfit posts, so I am following this conversation and notes! 

    Do you have pierced ears?  Your hair and face, to my eye, are the perfect foil for some simple drop earrings that might play nicely with your modern classic style?  There are also some small ear cuffs in the stores that are simple and edgy in a quiet/understated way.....just a thought :).

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Thank you, Lynne -- that is so sweet of you! I think we have a colour palette in common (or at least a lot of our best colours overlap) and so even if our climate is different we can take inspiration from one another! 

    I do have pierced ears. I tend to wear the same small studs all the time. They are little sterling silver "commas" or "quotation marks" which I think are perfect for a writer! But I do have other earrings that I sometimes wear. Perhaps I need to vary them more often. 

    Debbie, I can easily understand how a varied temperature would lead to challenges as well. Always layering! 

    Sveta, if the flannel shirt makes you happy, it is bound to be a slam dunk for me. Too bad I have to wait until January to get my size! But it will be a birthday present to myself. 

    Isn't Inge the greatest? I have a lot of work to do, to follow up on all those great leads! 

  • Meredith replied 9 years ago

    This has been SUCH an interesting thread to follow. As you know, I have lots of statements, but even for me appropriately casual statements are elusive. This fall I've tried to add 1) Fancy sweatshirts 2) On-trend tops (crop tops, plaid) and 3) Tried and true favorite patterns (stripes and moody florals). This gives me variety in color, shape, and formality. Now that it's November I'd like to add a sweater, so Ill be scouring Inge's suggestions and Angie's JCREW roundup.

  • Staysfit replied 9 years ago

    Wow, this was a lot to read!  I have to say that I have already purchased a few of the items that Inge recommended for you to look at here.  The gray and winter white Vince boatneck sweater is truly beautiful in person. I'm so excited to see it on sale.  I am going to call Nordstrom and ask them to apply the discount to my purchase.   I was about to post a picture of it when I started reading your post.  (I also tried some of the plaid pants and will post a pic of one of them as well.  Very outside my wheelhouse.  I think you can pull them off better than I can.)

    It looks like you have lots of options!  I look forward to seeing how you add casual statements to your wardrobe.

  • deb replied 9 years ago

    This thread is wonderful and Inge, you are on a roll!!! I am sad though, I am unable to wear wool, cashmere, nor angora. Crying big tears.

  • deb replied 9 years ago

    Oh, and Sveta, I got my shirt this week and I wish it were longer, also. Good idea to check out the men's selection.

  • Jaime replied 9 years ago

    Ok I am dizzy from all the gorgeous options on this thread and had to stop reading. My "winter" statements are mostly coats, but if I were you I would look closely at one of the more refined ponchos like the Helmut Lang one Angie posted. And culottes with warm tights. And everything suggested above of course. (Are you getting Lasik? Best thing I did.)

  • Neel replied 9 years ago

    I don't come on YLF for a day and I miss on so many fun posts! Serves me right!

    Suz, my problem is the opposite of yours! I seem to have only statements and regulars in my wardrobe! I always buy only those things that have some kind of interesting detail to it. A cut out back, some bling, fun shoes and loaded handbags! I am working on bringing in a few essentials into my wardrobe. Why am I not attracted to the simple silky black button down? A simple solid vneck sweater? Clean black flats? Simple structured handbag? And trust me I don't have any of those! The part of the reason for me is that, our summer is extremely long. 8 months to be precise. It is not practical to add layers to my outfit to create interest during these 8 months. I rely heavily on statementy tops, pants or shoes to make an effect. This is also why I find layering a challenge. Two statements or regulars don't layer quite well you know :).

    What are my winter statements? Hmm ... I will have to figure out this season! But I am guessing my glitter boots are definitely one!

    What could you add as statements to your WAH life? ... I haven't read all the replies, so I might be repeating. Leather skinnies/track pants? Fun socks? (Since you don't wear shoes at home). Are you a cape girl? I figure it would be super cozy for home. You have to try culottes too :)

    I hope I made sense and I am not over repeating! ... I am still on my first sip of morning cuppa o_O

  • Adelfa replied 9 years ago

    Such incredible suggestions! I fight boredom with colored jeans. I have grape and olive skinnies, and cobalt, burgundy, and raisin straights.

    I *would* do interesting pullovers, but I, my climate, and my office building run too hot for that. But glad Inge showed us so many!

    I too wear small earrings, but I change them every day--I have crystal, plain gold or silver, and semiprecious stones. I have three watches (gold, silver, charcoal mesh) that I choose between.

    I do consider myself a minimalist, but not an extreme one. Having that extra bit of variety keeps me content!

  • Gem replied 9 years ago

    I know you said you don't like leggings, but then you do like jeggings so I wondered what about something like these http://us.blackmilkclothing.co.....c-leggings They are very definitely a statement and you may hate them

  • Karie replied 9 years ago

    Suz, this is a fascinating thread and I have been reading it in bits and pieces and have finally found a few minutes to respond. Honestly, I have had a lightbulb moment with your last few threads re my at home dressing. But that's for another post, which I'll start when I get my next few minutes and some pics. For now, I have two suggestions:

    1. Crazy pants! A little pattern adds lots of fun to an outfit. There's just no way to feel or look blah when you're wearing plaids, or stripes, or my favorite, polka dots.

    2. I have every brick and mortar store near me in Albany (except Nordies, "Why oh why Mr. Nordstrom won't you build a store here?") so come visit and we'll go shopping! Really, Macy's (3 floors!), Lord and Taylor, J. Crew, Gap, BR, Loft, JCP, F21 (huge store!), LLBean, I could go on...

    I'll be back later to click through some of the links above. First I need to give my wallet to DH to hide somewhere :)

  • Gaylene replied 9 years ago

    I love this thread!

    I feel like I've had more of a glimpse into the personal style of other FABers from their suggestions for Suz than from any style moniker or rubic. Maybe that's what I need to do to find my Statements--just think of what I'd like Suz to wear to jazz up her Essentials! ;)

    Hey, Suz, are you interested in black leather leggings and an asymmetrical draped poncho? Or maybe that outfit in shades of grey, cream, and winter white? Grey leather leggings with a creamy white asymmetrical sweater would be perfect for...ME!

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Gaylene, I was thinking about you last night! I really think you hit on something truly important with that observation about statements being key to individual style. And so, so personal. 

    But you also said something really interesting in my earlier thread -- if a person is bored with her "uniform" adding a bunch of "statements" to it won't really help a lot. I might have run into that a bit last year.

    Karen, I'd love to come shopping with you, and I am on the hunt for crazy pants. :) 

    Gem, thank you for that link. I think those pants are just a little too crazy for my style, but I appreciate the thought! :) 

    Jody, I am ordering a pair of dark red pants to try. In the past, bright coloured pants and I have not got along (although I do love patterned pants) -- so we shall see. :) 

    Neel, you are the queen of statements, so I need to look at what you do to see how it is done

    Jaime, thank you! I will consider this poncho business -- you and Gaylene can't both be wrong!

    Deb, that shirt will look great on you. Too bad about knits, but good thing you don't live in my climate!! 

    Staysfit, that Vince sweater is indeed very beautiful! Off to read your threads. 

    Meredith, thank you. It sounds as if our strategies so far are similar. 

    Thanks, all. I am making up a shopping list and a list of categories to be on the lookout for. Feeling a little more hopeful that I'll be able to figure it all out as the season continues. And, after all, I don't really need to get dressed right now -- still sick!! 

  • Angie replied 9 years ago

    Chiming back in to say that Essentials are AS key to personal style as Statements are. 

  • replied 9 years ago

    I liked that line about too about how adding a bunch of statements to a uniform  isn't necessarily the answer either - because where does that end?  Again, a lot to digest and think about here - as we take all of these  thoughts and use what we can for ourselves.  Someone - too many posts now to remember who has said what- suggested a capsule or "uniform" based on athletic wear (the look)  and that resonated with me.  I have that kind of a "uniform" for my non-working hours and that's where the leggings come into play for me.  Sweatpants, wrap yoga sweaters, loose fit t's, scarves, lightweight zip up quilted vests and jackets - all in luxe fabrics = yummy!

    I think having a capsule or uniform that is based on something authentic in your life is a good idea - and because fitness is such a big part of your life, Suz, you might find you like some of the more luxe pieces for everyday /casual/at home wear.  Anyways, again, this was such a fun and interesting discussion and I've enjoyed reading all the other members' posts.

  • Neel replied 9 years ago

    Suz - I have to add that my at home style (or lack of) is not the same as my WIWs. My WIWs are mostly the school runs and errands stuff. Wiwear at home to cook, mop, clean bathrooms is tees and pants of some sort with crocs! I honestly am trying to deal with the mental block of getting muck, oil, children's goo from runny noses and drool on my *nice* clothes at home! I don't step out in those forbidden clothes ever!

    So, our needs might be slightly or rather vastly different!

  • E replied 9 years ago

    My indoor winter statements are quirky jumpers, plaid wool skirts, and interesting blouses worn under wool cardis for warmth. Oh and textured trousers: corduroy, velvet, wool flannel, tweed. My statement accessories are brooches or belts worn w skirts; I don't wear a lot of scarves indoors either. I do wear fingerless mitts tho so I guess that's another indoor statement!

    I wanted to suggest a potential solution to the cat/tights/skirts issue: could you layer a pair of sturdy leggings over the tights just for indoor wear and then take them off before running errands? Or if your cat is kneading you during laptime, keep a blanket handy to throw over your legs? I'm not terribly familiar w cats, so that might not work, but I thought I'd throw it out there just in case. I'd hate to give up skirts and dresses for so long!

    Oh and add me to the not comfortable in leggings crowd. I wear them as pjs or as tights w a knee length dress or skirt, but I don't care for the tunic & leggings look on myself.

  • E replied 9 years ago

    I forgot colourful or scrunched socks! They're another indoor statement accessory for me. But then, I tend more to the quirky than you. ;)

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    E -- those are interesting observations and suggestions. And you have a point there -- what if I wore leggings (or even thermal undies) with a dress if I wanted to wear it? That might work...I can experiment. I do have a blanket that I throw over myself when Max wants to sit on me. It helps...but does not eliminate the trouble. 

    I'm really intrigued that you also don't like tunic and leggings on yourself. Since we are similar body types and size, I wonder if it is something we're seeing in the proportions? I am pretty much ready to say no to this whole idea, much as I had hoped it would work for me. Alas. 

    Neel - when my daughter was as young as your kids, I lived in tees and jeans with ratty cardigans. No style whatsoever. So I hear you. That's why you are a hero to me -- you actually make the effort for those school runs!! :)

    Lisa, I think the sporty luxe idea may have some traction for me. I do like my new sweatpants and sweatshirt a whole lot! Maybe I can find a couple more versions. 

    Angie, that is a really great reminder and so true. I think I feel more confident about my essentials, you know? My essentials are always going to be high quality modern classics.

    When I first came to YLF I was worried that was boring, but now I have embraced it. And I pretty much always feel confident picking out my essentials, and won't hesitate to spend what I can afford on them, either. I know they will have staying power for me and I will love them.

    Statements are trickier for me to purchase. First, because of the whole "giving myself permission" thing. Second, because I feel less confident that I can choose items that will actually please me. My recent failure with leggings and the Kenneth Cole draped sweater being two examples on point! :) 

  • Parsley replied 9 years ago

    I'm really late to this thread, but I relate to your desire to have some spark and interest in  casual clothes. 

    Here's a sweater that I think would look beautiful on you with your graceful neck and short hair. I have it in cobalt and absolutely love it, but I think the orchid color would be perfect for you. Whether it falls into the category of casual or not-so-casual (or both?) I don't know, and it is pricy, but of course there are sales all the time (I got mine on sale). Trust me that it looks better in person than in the pictures, and the turtleneck falls beautifully.

  • Windchime replied 9 years ago

    Suz, I've had several "lightbulb" moments while reading through this entire thread. Like you, I was delighted with my wardrobe last summer (for work, home, and occasions) but am having a harder time this fall. Last summer, I wore a big range of colors, several print shirts, and a few on-trend bottoms. Now I am looking at mostly black, grey, and navy, with a touch of burgundy and pink, in almost all solid colors. I've bought a lot of new items over the last year and have loved wearing most of them, but have noticed in the last couple weeks, as cold weather has settled in here, that I'm becoming just the tiniest bit discontent. Reading this made me realize I need color and textural variety in my winter clothes! I am another one of your fans who always checks out your fab outfits, and I will be watching with great interest as you refine your winter style.

  • E replied 9 years ago

    For me, tunics & leggings makes me feel too top-heavy and rectangular and like I have scrawny little legs. Which doesn't mean I think that when I see other women with my body type wearing that combo! Just that mentally, it puts me in an uncomfortable place. I tried pairing a tunic w slouchier skinnies (vs skintight leggings) last week, and that helped a bit, and the forum generally approved, but I still didn't feel nearly as good as I do in my go-to silhouettes. I have paired a fit & flare mini-dress with wide leg trousers though & felt good in that. Or sometimes instead of shorts & tights, I'll wear shorts & leggings, with a waist-surrendering blouse, w/o thinking anything of it. But the blouse is much shorter than a tunic would be & I've got some 'poof' at my hips thanks to baggy shorts.My pjs often involve leggings w a longer (covering the lady bits) silk blouse & long cardigan over top, but the cardigan has a strong waistline & then does a kind of frilly peplum cutaway thing. So for me, it must have to do with a combination of hemline proportions, waist definition or lack thereof, and volumes at shoulders vs hips. Not sure if any of that stream of consciousness that helps you!

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    It does, E. My legs are the opposite of skinny so that's not the issue for me, but I definitely feel bizarrely proportioned and too rectangular with a tunic/ skinnies look. And top-heavy, somehow --- I think I would need sky-high heels truly to carry it off. 

  • Caro in Oz replied 9 years ago

    This is such a fabulous thread - so much wisdom :) Eliza perfectly summed up my feelings too. Putting my money into the things I wear everyday has been life changing (& I don't say that lightly). Before YLF I was feeling short-changed, because I couldn't wear my dressier pieces as often. I really wasn't making the most of my retirement & the sartorial freedom it gives me :) 

    Since finding track pants & harems I have moved from slim fit bottoms to a much looser fit.  I find this silhouette much better for me & it means I don't need to have lots of different style/length tops to go with all the different pants.

  • Suz replied 9 years ago

    Caro, that is really interesting. Gaylene said something similar. Well, she still likes her skinnies and slim pants but has also embraced the luxe track pant. I got a pair recently in a weight that works better for my climate and I love them. 

    Since mid-September I have been tracking what I actually wear. It's been fascinating. But I'm not sure I can draw any conclusions from it yet. I had already been putting my money in most-worn items, that's clear. (Well, obviously I put some money in less worn items, but they are necessary items, e.g. one cocktail dress that only gets worn once or twice a year but is still required.) At the same time, a lot of my workhorses were less expensive items. 

    I have been doing a lot of musing and considering and have come up with a few ideas. Stay tuned! 

    Thanks again, everyone! Very helpful indeed. 

  • Deborah replied 9 years ago

    I recognised reading through this thread that I rely on my hair, makeup and nails as pretty consistent statements for both dressy and casual.

    As you know I don't really use colour to make a statement, so I would say things like :

    • textures
    • interesting design features
    • asymmetric hemlines
    • layering

    are what I use to make a casual statement (and a dressy one for that matter).

    My wardrobe generally crosses over from dressy to casual  / work to home quite seamlessly.  I might wear my harem pants with a top, blazer and ankle boots to the office, but for home I would swap the blazer for a draped cardigan and the boots for a flat shoe.

    I am also seeing the sense in better quality purchases for my essentials/everyday wear as I would rather spend my money on great pieces that I enjoy wearing often and have longevity than on say a very cool statement jacket that I actually might tire of much sooner. 

  • Caro in Oz replied 9 years ago

    IMO -tracking + outfit photos = changed shopping habits :)

    Can't wait to hear your musings.

  • texstyle replied 9 years ago

    I imagine some shopping carts got filled up this past weekend after revisiting this post a few times!  I had to refrain, as tempted as I was since my cold weather season is so short I will barely have a chance to wear the sweaters and warm tops I already own.

    Can't wait to see what Suz comes up with for some of her statements.

  • Elly replied 9 years ago

    I think that it is fine not to want to wear leggings--- maybe revisiting skirts with leggings under them may be the ticket.

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